We make mistakes though, iwant2 don't feel guilty about it. As Saturnmoth said, she will forgive you because she loves you.

A question to Saturnmoth, don't you find that you may take things out on your girlfriend because she reminds you of your grandmother. You may release some of your guilt and anxiety problems on her?

I believe this is the main reason why relationships fail sometimes, my brother particularly. He has some serious issues from prior family life and a terrible end to his last relationship and he said he'll deal with it when he gets a girlfriend.
I think its important to deal with the issues when they're there also, because constantly people seem to reflect onto friends and loved ones.
I know its off topic what you wrote just hit a nerve i guess!


I think you need a situation like iwant2 has had to truely realise about being thankfull, sometimes people are blind until they are forced to see.

Coincidentally, the same thing happened to me, and i had very bad guilt and anxiety problems, but then i found my girlfriend who reminds me of my grandmother so much, and we've been very happy together the past year and a half now. It sounds silly but i like to think that she is an angel, and i have come to terms with myself and gotten out of by anxiety problems because of her.

words are words, but if she loved you, she will have forgiven you. Don't listen to rebelrocker, spreading hate is bad, but it does not go against all that is good since true good comes from inside not outside, as does true bad. Words are only words on the outside and nothing more.

Rebelrocker dont talk because unless the same thing happened to you ur not entitled to.

If you want to recognize just how blessed you are, I recommend following this link and watching the video.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4C-u6kdHuXE&eurl=

i just wanted to know, why would you tell someone you hated them? i would understand if you were angry, but it hurts so much to be told you're hated. i'm just saying, not trying to piss you off. i totally realize you regret that, and i fully believe that hate is evil! by spreading it, through words, actions, you're spreading everything that is against good. i hope you realize this. just saying

I agree that you should think before you speak. I also agrree that you should be thankful for what you have got. However if you tell people about all the good things you have, it kind of is like bragging.