Well that's what I meant. I don't necessarily want to weigh less, but look more appealing.

OOH-RAH! FOD I know a guy who went to boot and came out 20 pounds heavier and didn't have an ounce of fat on him and that's on a near starvation diet to!

I need to go to boot camp...

I'm with Celtic. When my boyfriend came back from boot camp and especially when he came home for Christmas - I missed the belly. His tummy was one of my favorite parts of his body. And now, he says, it will pretty much all be gone by May.

I guess I'll be happy with rock hard abs, though, if I can't have a squishy tummy for a pillow.

Yeah, my therapist has actually revealed a little too much about her fetish-guys sometimes. It's a little weird, but still kind of comforting. I just don't feel comfortable, so I'm trying to change it. Thanks, though, Celtic.

Worth, you know me - that was just total randomness.

Freedom, my boyfriend is fat, okay. Fat. He has a gut type fat. But to me he's the sexiest thing alive and there is nothing anyone can say to stop that. I actually love his belly and it's nice to lay my head on it.

Love you BACK! And frontways and sideways and such...

...Beach Boys?

....my lyrics are from Gavin DeGraw. Did the Beach Boys do it first? Or did you just want to randomly say that you love the Beach Boys?

confused...

I love you, Worth.

Oh, and The Beach Boys rule.

....I can see where freedom is coming from after reading his stats in one of his posts. My bf was 6'5" so everyone thought he was thin just because he could carry it well. But he was a fat kid - he had a belly on him.

So I don't want to like sit here and say, "Yes, freedom, you are indeed fat!" But #1 I can see how you could be even w/your statistical info (or perhaps because of your statistical info) and #2 it doesn't really matter whether we think you're fat or not - if you think you are then that's what matters.

My bf tells me I'm not fat all the time but I know fosho that I am and I'm trying to fix it. I will never be happy with him telling me I'm not until I can tell myself that.

And, that being said, back to the topic - I shall not be wearing a nakedsuit unless I have lost quite a bit of weight by the event.

But it wouldn't matter... You know that...

Why the FUCK do you think I'm always saying, 'It's a shame you don't live closer'?

That's obese. Not fat. I never said I wasn't attractive. I said no one would want to see me 'naked' because a fat kid doesn't look good even in a suit. But now that you mention it, I do find my fat unattractive. Which is why I've been working at it.

It doesn't matter. Fat is when you're riding around on a scooter in Wal-Mart. Despite what you say, you're really quite attractive. So shut up.

Okay, I'd like to know how you people are so sure of yourselves when all you've ever seen is a face and only have numerics to go on.

Freedom, you're not fat. Damn it.

Bri, you are NOT fat.


DON'T ARGUE WITH ME.

Who started it before, kat?

We are not going to start this argument again.

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You're not even fat freedom.

You haven't seen me in person. Haven't you realized all my pictures are from the chest up? I have manboobs, even if they don't sag... They're Madonna-like. And I have actually been asked about my "beer belly" since going to school because the guy thought I was a drinker, even though I haven't been drinking at all, ever. And my butt is huge. So are my thighs. I am 230 pounds and stand at 6'2". It isn't healthy. I have a BMI of 29.7, which has decreased since I got to school but not by much. I am fat. Period.

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The fat kid never looks good, even in a suit.

You're not even fat freedom.