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Registered: March 29, 2003
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this is something that the indian media has been debating a lot about recently... its about whether geting raped is a girls fault or not..most people belive that if a girl dresses provatively she deserves to be raped..and keep in mind traditionaly the indian society is a very conservative one...its just recently that girls have started wearing western stuff and esp gowns and stuff.. so what do u think? who is to blame ..the girl for dressing provocatively or the men for being themselves? one more thing...should a rapist get a death sentence?
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Registered: January 03, 2005
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[QUOTE]Originally posted by CathayKid: It's like saying "the bank should be blamed for being robbed because it made it obvious that there was money!" That kind of argument should've died already.The way she dressed didn't violate any laws,the rapists' wrongdoing did.They can't hurt someone and say it's because she didn't fight hard enough. QUOTE] That is a great way to explain it. The force is what is wrong, not the dress style. Come on, you cant blame the "rapee" for being a person.
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Registered: February 24, 2003
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It's like saying "the bank should be blamed for being robbed because it made it obvious that there was money!" That kind of argument should've died already.The way she dressed didn't violate any laws,the rapists' wrongdoing did.They can't hurt someone and say it's because she didn't fight hard enough. No comment on the death sentence,let the jury make the judgement.
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Registered: March 29, 2003
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YNLISA were some posts from this thread delelted?
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Registered: October 06, 2004
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quote: Originally posted by redstateus:
Rape is NEVER ok, or justified. and niether is having anykind of sexual contact with someone you're not married to. Niehter one of these actions should be condoned. Alot of rapes that occur could have been easily avoided. (keep in mind when saying this I'm not excusing the rapist but that any would be victim has no control over his decision IE. they can still choose to rape you but we can decide to make it easy or hard.) I really do with that women would treat themselves with enough respect to dress in a manner that holds back some dignity, wether here or in india. To anser the question. Girls who are raped deserve to die about as much as anyone who has ever been lied to.
third realm. the **** is about to hit the fan, didn't i tell you to stop typing while you were ahead?
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Registered: March 10, 2005
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quote: Girls who are raped deserve to die about as much as anyone who has ever been lied to.
excuse me?
"We have staked the whole of all our political institutions upon the capacity of mankind for self-government, upon the capacity of each and all of us to govern ourselves, to control ourselves, to sustain ourselves according to the Ten Commandments of God." - James Madison
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Registered: May 22, 2005
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Rape is NEVER ok, or justified. and niether is having anykind of sexual contact with someone you're not married to. Niehter one of these actions should be condoned. Alot of rapes that occur could have been easily avoided. (keep in mind when saying this I'm not excusing the rapist but that any would be victim has no control over his decision IE. they can still choose to rape you but we can decide to make it easy or hard.) I really do with that women would treat themselves with enough respect to dress in a manner that holds back some dignity, wether here or in india. To anser the question. Girls who are raped deserve to die about as much as anyone who has ever been lied to.
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Registered: March 10, 2005
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I agree with Celtic on this one. If you put yourself in the position (like giving oral sex), then I wouldnt call it rape. But no girl deserves to get raped - it is never the girls fault if a man makes her give him sex. I dont think rapists deserve the death penalty, because frankly, death is way too easy compared to living hell-on-earth in a prison, where they will get to feel the pain and embarrassment of getting raped.
"We have staked the whole of all our political institutions upon the capacity of mankind for self-government, upon the capacity of each and all of us to govern ourselves, to control ourselves, to sustain ourselves according to the Ten Commandments of God." - James Madison
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Registered: December 11, 2003
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Wow, well here, everyone dresses provocatively. No, I don't think a girl who dresses provocatively should be raped. I do think, however, that if a girl is, say, performing oral sex on a guy, and he has intercourse with her, even if she says no, that it isn't rape. I'm sorry, but don't rub the lamp if you're not expecting the genie to come out. In other words, if you're doing something sexual with a guy, take in mind of what might happen. Do they deserve the death sentence? As much as I wish death to my rapist, I'd say I'm much more pleased with the fantasy of him being raped many times a day by prisoners.
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