I don't hate homosexuals. I pity them. I despise the things they do, but I don't hate them- .I don't like some of the things my friends do, but I still am their friend. I am sick of people accusing me of Hating homosexuals just becaise I don't approve of thier behavior. there is a difference between tolerating and condoning. I wish they wouldn't push thier view on what homosexuality is on the rest of us. We have the right to think it's wrong. I don't want to "outlaw" homosexuality. When I grow older, marry and have children, I don't want them trying to push thier lifestyle on my kids. you know, I think deep down they feel bad about what thier doing, and they hope getting the blessing of the government will make them feel better.
(of Course naturally they won't admit it)

If Homosexuality isn't a choice, why are there cases of homosexuals going strait?

First of all, homosexuality is not a choice. You are born with it, that is how you were made. More often than not, homosexuals long to be straight too, but it's not up to them to decide. And just like being heterosexual, being homosexual is not wrong. It's simply a lower percentile of the population today. Heterosexuals hate homosexuals because they are different, then why shouldn't homosexuals despise heterosexuals for having a different lifestyle?It is absolutely okay for them to love whomever they choose, just like heterosexuals. They have feeling too. Why would they choose to be hated by narrow-minded people when they can have an absolutely "normal" lifestyle? They are no different from anybody else except for who they sleep with. I have gay friends as well as straight friends because i somehow always reach out to outsiders because i want to help them. I find these friends sometimes more sensitive, caring and friendly than most heterosexual people. But they are also more withdrawn because they know that a large part of the population hate them simply because of how they were born. They are frightened and they need our love.

Dante - I finally found the post where homosexual marriage and adoption were being discussed! So sorry to have troubled you.

I don't see how anyone can say that homosexuality is unnatural. I'm as mystified as norrow. If something is occuring naturally, how is it not natural? Someone said something about a third sex - let me ask you this: why would people deliberately choose to adopt a lifestyle that would earn them hatred, discrimination, ridicule, and damnations from people like you, unless they wre born that way? Why would anyone subject themselves to that unless that was the only way they could be happy? People love who they love. It's totally natural! Gr. And I don't see how people object to the marriage/adoption issue either. How can you prove that homosexuals wouldn't fill the roles of spouse/parents as well or better than many straight people. If you people didn't have the Bible to base all your arguments on, you wouldn't have a leg to stand on. It's a book, for crying out loud! You don't even know who wrote it. It could've been any poor lunatic calling himself Peter. I'm not saying this is the case, I'm just saying - HOW DO YOU KNOW? You don't. You weren't there. I believe some of the Bible is true - especially the parts about Jesus and Abraham and those biographical kinds of things. But I don't think God had anything to do with it. And it's unfortunate that people today are using Him as a reason to discriminate against those who are different.

Think you could have made that one post?

I don't know where the heck you're getting this "third sex" thing from. No one is saying homosexuals are some kida hermaphroditic, asexual, or otherwise unestablished sex. There is obviously a diference in sexual preference and orientation. That is not even at question. So to argue that there can be no homosexuals because they aren't their own sex is pointless and absurd.
There is a difference in gender (different from sex) but that's another issue. Gender is a social construct of roles and such.
All four of your posts contribute nothing and are irrelevant.

All sins do have the capacity for damnation to hell, BUT sins can be forgiven. Therefore, yes homosexuality is like any other sin, and just like any other sin can be forgiven. The bible dosent condemn homosexuals who repent.

One Thing that bothers me a lot is that homosexuals can adopt children. The Bible is quite clear that homosexuality is wrong. But of all the things homosexuals want adoption is the worst from a biblical view. Jesus Said " Anyone who leads a child astray, it would be better for him to tie a millstone around his neck and cast himself into the sea"

Medical Science has only two sexes- Male and Female
Homosexuality has no physical difference from male or female, and therefore is not a physical condition, but a mental one.

why anyone thinks homosexuality is a born-with attribute. There is a signifigant and rather obvious physical difference between Male amd Female. Howosexuals are either born Male or Female- there is no physical difference between a homosexual and a heterosexual. Science gives no basis for a third sex.

You know, I hate this topic but I can't keep my two cents to myself lol. Did you people choose to be heterosexual? Did you really wake up one day and decide that or is that how you've always been? I personally didn't choose, cuz if I had the choice I'd much rather be attracted to women. But I like men...why would it be any different for homosexuals? All this talk about sin and hell and blah blah blah is b.s. We ALL sin (if you want to go by the bible). Lying, cheating, stealing, envy, eating too much, drinking too much, fighting with your parents...ALL SINS ACCORDING TO THE BIBLE! Like the wise person said before me, judge not lest ye be judged.

Hey buddy you like the bible and you keep refering to it in almost all you post about everything well,
Sallow this,

Matthew 7:1-5

JUDGE not that ye be judges. For with what judgement ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again. And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye? Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye? Thou HYPOCRITE, 1st cast out the beam of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother

Translated version:
Do not judge or you to will be judged. For the same way judge others you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured on you. Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in you brothers eye, and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye. How can you say to your borther let me take the speck out you eye when all the time there is a plank in you own eye. You hypocrite 1st take the plank out of you own eye and then you wil see clearly to remove the speck from your brothers eye.

In others words:
he who is without sin cast the 1st stone.
I know your not perfect so what gives you the right to judge others. All sins in gods eyes are the same. So don't make it seem like you some perfect christain cause no one is.

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And has anyone even BEGUN to question why homosexuality is AGAINST THE LAW in some states?

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Did you ever stop to think that the people who made these laws were people like you joey? Thats's why they're there. Because different people belive diffrerent things and want to change things to be their way. You do it, I do it, everyone does- that's why we're having this discussion in the first place. To have others see it our way. Some people go to the extremes of forcing people to behave certain ways because of beliefs. This is why My state (MN) is in danger of having laws passed which will make abortion illegal. (Which completely aggrivates me by the way, I beleive women should have the right to choose about what goes on in their bodies and their lives, but i won't go to far into that issue here) When the majority of people believe something and hold power, in the US, they have the right to attempt to make laws that contibute to their beliefs.

I do not think it is right that Homosexuality should be considered wrong, a sin, or unlawful period. It is not a choice, it is not even the buisness of those who aren't in the relationship in the first place! Who cares! I mean goodness joey, why does it bother you so much? Are you trying to save their souls? As long as you get to heaven, who cares about everyone else?! (I'm being sarcastic by the way, I'm sure you don't really believe that)


My uncle is Gay and has a partner, my mother's best friend is a lesbian and has a partner and 2 children, my very close friend's Godfather was murdered for the simple reason that he was gay. So you see, I know what these people go through, i know they can't help who they are, I know what wonderful people/parents they can be. I do NOT know however, WHY people try to keep them from living life the way the want to naturally, just on a basis of who they love. I think it's sick. It would be like me forcing someone to have sex with a dog because I found it immoral for them to be attracted to fellow humans.

Now do you see why being against those that are Gay seems so ridiculous to me?

What is the point?

~Becca

I hear what you're saying Norrow. Homosexuality isn't a sin except in the bible (and when reading a source of information you should assess how reliable it is, ie. who exactly wrote it, for what purpose and audience was it written, in what time was it written and is it biased? This is true even for holy books!) and seeing as I'm not religious, I don't any reason for thinking it's a sin. It hurts nobody, at least, no more than heterosexual love. Also, I notice that whenever people talk about homosexuality they talk about the sexual side of it, the lusting after someone of the opposite sex. It's like it's all based on sexual desires, they never seem to mention that it's about actual love as well. Gay people LOVE each other, just the same as straight people. And I don't see why there's this great opposition to letting them have that. People will be gay, what you think or say isn't going to change their minds so you might as well sit back, relax and get used to the idea.

I would like us to keep the Bible out of this and just focus on why homosexuality is somehow a sin. (Not that I think it is.)

Adultery is a sin because it ruins a person emotionally and mentally and causes spouses to believe that they have not been good humans, and destroys the spouses faith in humankind.

Murder is a sin because it removes a person from this world, prevents him or her from ever seeing it or changing it in a meaningful way, and emotionally scars the aquaintances, friends and loved ones of the victim.

Child molestation is a sin because it violates and emotionally scars a child for life.

In each of these three cases of actions that I, the Bible and many, many other people believe to be sins, there is a victim. Who is the "victim" of homosexuality?

I hope that it's being a littler clearer why I mentioned God in the topic. I figured that if I didn't, a lot of people would be writing that Jesus is the "victim" of homosexuality.

Who is the victim?

First of all, don't pray for me. If I wanted someone to pray for me, I would have asked. Thanks anyway.

Second, my post was meant to be sarcastic- you didn't say all rapists were rapists, but you hinted they can;t be trusted, or at least shouldn't be able to get married, adopt and so on. Why not? What makes them bad parents?

Also my viewpoint of the bible isn't twisted. I don't believe in everything I said, it was just some theories people have, some of which I agree with and some of which I don't. I just don't think that everything in the bible should be believed just because it's the BIBLE. I mean, it's a book that was written thousands of years ago by some people who heard about someone who saw god in their dreams.

Anhd there's no such thing as anti-morals, really, because everyone's morals are different and affected by society.

Fetch, I'm going to pray for you because you have obviously learned a sick and twisted viewpoint of the Bible and have made it a priority in showing complete disregard for the true Gospel.

I do not hang out with my friend because of his lifestyle. You can be friends with someone without hanging out with them (I'm no longer in high school by the way, but this friend didn't even go to my school; he's about six years older than me).

And fetch, you have totally distorted my answers with your liberal, anti-moral opinions; I did not say homosexuals were rapists, nor did I say straight parents DON'T abuse kids...

You make assumptions out of my answers to make it fit your liberal viewpoint and I resent that.



And has anyone even BEGUN to question why homosexuality is AGAINST THE LAW in some states?

Not only is it a moral sin, but in some states, sodomy is against the law. In some states, same-sex marriages aren't recognized and in other states, you can't adopt children if you're gay.


So not only is it a moral sin, but it's against THE LAW.

Being gay isn't the only component to a person. It's only part of it. I personally would hate it if I was simply identified as "straight." There is so much more to a person than their sexual orientation.
I also don't believe homsexuality is a choice. No one wakes up one day and says, "Hey, I think I'm gonna be gay today!" Who does that about being heterosexual anyway? Who you're attrated to is not a choice. It's just something that happens within that you can't control.
I think 10% of the population is straight. And another 10% is gay. The rest of us (That's 80%) are in that fuzzy gray area. A friend of mine once said, "I'm straight so far, but who's to say I won't fall in love with a woman next month?" I think that's true. You could think you're heterosexual, but someday you could meet someone of the same sex and realize that you're attracted to them. Life is a great big surprise, and if anyone thinks they have all the answers, I'd bet that they're wrong.
Btw, I just had to brag a little: I live in Vermont, we have civil unions, and I think it's grand.

Solve your religious squabbles in the other topics. What I'm trying to ask is, why is homosexuality a sin?

Is it a sin just because it is a sin?

Is it a sin because it is unusual, different from the majority?

Is it a sin because you believe that homosexuals are all child molesters?

Or is it not a sin at all, which I will continue to believe until someone proves me otherwise?

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There WERE homosexuals in Biblical times; I have not disputed that.

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I'm not talking about Sodom. Obviosuly that's the "bad" part of it. But David was considered the only "true" king, and yet his relastionship with Jonathan wasn't innocent.

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I'm not "homophobic" either. I do have a friend that is gay; I don't hang out with him and he knows how I feel about it, but I am not a homophobe.

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He's your friend but you don't hang out with him? do you even say hello to him in school when people won't see you together?

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I just don't like the fact that same-sex unions can be recognized, gays are allowed to adopt, and gays can be eligible for money for being fired or not hired based on their sexual orientation.

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Because obviously homosexuals are rapists and crappy parents, and no straight people would abuse their children.

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That's not being homophobic.

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no, not at all.

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And the friends who consider themselves Christians while at the same time believing in evolution are NOT Christians - according to the Bible.

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According to the way you interpet the bible.

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If God had planned for evolution, He would have told us.

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Maybe he did and you didn't listen right? Or maybe it slipped his mind.

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And I DO believe homosexuals can be changed from their ways; I met a guy at the Billy Graham crusade three weeks ago who told me his entire testimony of how God got to him one night!

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That person was either in denial, or was never really gay.

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There are ways to break away from sin, including homosexuality.

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Like forcing yourself to marry someone you're not attracted to. Fun.

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As far as the whole thing about Ruth and Naomi goes, I'm not going to comment on that because, like many of you, you don't know much about it

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Really? I don't? Funny, because I thought I studied it at school, and I don't seem to recall flunking.

so we went from homosexuality to discussing God. okay question- if Jesus Christ was just some guy from 2000 years ago who lived, died and did all that, then why are we discussing him wif such passion today??? tell me that!

Cos it strikes ppl in their heart, and they feel the need to deny God and Jesus Christ. every single eprson in this earth feels the need to worship someone. this is why we worship football stars anmd rock singers.

Simply, we are trying to deny God cos He wants to make us live by His standards- which today are seen as too hard, we give up simply cos Hisd way is moral!

So accept that if we are still discussing Him 2000 years later, still trying to create and deny His existance, there must be something within your soul which tells you the truth, He is alive!

As for homosexuality- it is considered a sin, and it is a moral chice ppl make to be that way.

hehe kat!