Off topic, but Sigmund Freud was somewhat of a quack. Alright, he had his moments, but after reading through a few of his books and letters last year.. as a part of my researsh on Jungian psychology.... yeah. It was actually quite humorous. C.G. Jung complained in his writings that Freud was blaming practically every psychological disorder patients had on the oedipus complex or some other sexually frustrating problem.
Paintbucket, don't be a jerk. Better yet, don't be a bigot. Stop using God as an excuse for your prejudice and narrow-mindedness. You silly little blasphemer, you.
quote: According to Sigmund Freud, everyone is supposedly born bisexual and they unconsciously "choose" between heterosexuality, homosexuality, or bisexuality.
quote: Sunset i love how you say you used to be a christian because it shows what relationship you had with God: not a good one. No true christian can turn their back on God. If you're fully dependant it's impossible to turn from that, thus showing you were not a true christian
Were you refering to me, cause I'm the only one who said I used to be christian. Anyway, God has no control over me or anyone else, God did not create me (my parents made me without divine intervention), in a sense I am better than God because I exist and He doesn't, I have no belief in God and if He wants to send me to Hell, I really, really reeeeeally don't care. To you being raped by Satan and his demons is a nightmare, to me it's a dream. So you worry about yourself and I'll worry about me. And Sunset will worry about herself as well, for what we believe (or don't believe) is not your concern.
quote: I don't really think I was born straight though. There is something about pre-programmed sexuality that just doesn't make sense to me. I mean, is favorite color pre-programmed?
According to Sigmund Freud, everyone is supposedly born bisexual and they unconsciously "choose" between heterosexuality, homosexuality, or bisexuality.
"You can safely assume that you've created God in your own image, when it turns out that God hates all the same people you do." -Anne Lamott
"Why is it that, as a culture, we are more comfortable seeing two men holding guns than holding hands?" -Ernest Gaines
However, I could rob a bank too. Or sell drugs, or jack cars.
Someone gay, COULD carry on a relationship with someone of the opposite sex, I’m sure it has/had/will happen.
This doesn't make any of it right.
If I was gay, I would still be Christian, Because I know Jesus is right. However, knowing how God feels about homosexuality, I would choose a life of celibacy, many straight men do this anyway.
I don't really think I was born straight though. There is something about pre-programmed sexuality that just doesn't make sense to me. I mean, is favorite color pre-programmed? Or your sense of style? I think your sexual preference is something you work at, I believe there is a point you do choose, but it is a choice you can't go back on, and it is made very subconsciously, it isn't literal, "Ben or Sally... Ben!", but just the idea crosses your mind, and you pursue it, and once you decide what you like, then that is locked in, nothing else will do.
You can change being Christian. You can't change being Gay. So what you just said has no relation to anything. Try this; Try liking guys. It won't work. You can change religions. Correct?
Just because we're 'illogical' doesn't mean we can't be 'logical.' It isn't impossible.
I never had a relationship with God. If you count being born Christian, a Christian, fine. But I never believed in God. I never will. Oh well. Why does that have anything to do with it? -Sunset
Hey, it's been awhile...computer problems, you understand.
quote: If you don't want them to go to church, there is something wrong.
I agree completely with that statement, homosexuals should be allowed in church because who is without sin? we all have been found lacking. So what's the diff between a homosexual going to church and a compulsive gambler or a druggy?
quote: Also, it's like half of you base your opinions on what's right or wrong from the Bible. What would you think if you never seen a Bible or went to church? Would it be different?
First of all most people base their morals on what they think is right which happens to agree with some of what the bible says. Second, it says in the bible that God's law is written on our hearts when we fully surrender to him. Thirdly, why wouldn't we base what's right or wrong on our belief of what is right and true?
quote: But you hate them being gay, so you hate them.
So i can hate what someone does and that means i hate them? what if i fall in love with a person and then discover they're a smoker and i hate it when people smoke, does that mean that i hate my love?
quote: why would you want to be gay? If you get disowned, picked on, backlashed from society... why would you choose that?
Sunset, this argument is logical but you're forgetting that humans are naturally illogical. If you think about it Christians are made fun of and abused for much of the same reasons. you don't know much about it because it happens in other countries, and to a lesser extent here. Still people in those countries choose to be Christians.
quote: Yes, christians can hold opposing views toward the "mob," but the entire basis of Christianity is Love. What does it matter who loves who? Love is Love, and that's all there is to it
It matter who you love to a great extent, it matters that you love God and if you love God than you would do anything to please him. You can't love God and Sin at the same time, it's being lukewarm and the bible teaches against that.
quote: So tell me why hasn't God erased them from the planet?
Because God is compassionate, and he is willing that none should perish but all should come to repentance. He gave us free will for a reason and he doesn't want to change that.
Sunset i love how you say you used to be a christian because it shows what relationship you had with God: not a good one. No true christian can turn their back on God. If you're fully dependant it's impossible to turn from that, thus showing you were not a true christian
quote: One study involved 175 male adults who had been convicted in Massachusetts of child sexual assault. They found that none of them were homosexuals; all of them would fit the description of a fixated child molester. They were sexually attracted only to children and not to other adults. 2 Another researcher studied sexually abused children seen in a hospital. Only 2 perpetrators (less than 1% of the total) were homosexuals (i.e. were attracted to same-sex adults).
Everybodys different, you can not force people to conform to what you think is the 'right' way to be! Do you think that God has anything against homosexuals? Do seriously think that God preaches bigotism?! Or are you 'Methodists' just putting words in the God's mouth because you are scared of anything that's different than what you believe to be right? Are they doing anything wrong? All that they are doing is loving someone, does God have a problem with that? Well if were you, with all you're bigotry and hate-mongering, I would be ashamed to call myself a Christian!
quote: Being straight is natural. Gay people are messing with nature.
PaintBucket, you make me glad that I used to be Christian. Technically you're saying that gays are as powerful as your God, in that they can change nature. I had learned that there is only one being that can mess with nature and change it in whatever way he sees fit. And that is God. God, the "almighty creator" can change and rearrange nature in a way that there would be no homosexuals if he wanted to, period. But they've been around since the beginning of mankind and they will be around until the very end. If God didn't want it that way, he would have wiped them off the face of the Earth in an instant. So tell me why hasn't God erased them from the planet?
Humans are natural animals in kingdom Animalia and whatever this animal does, physically, mentally, sexually, or emotionally is always going to be natural.
"Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity!" Psalms 133:1
Actually no what? You have to be more specific, otherwise I cannot point out where you are wrong for you.
quote:Being straight is natural. Gay people are messing with nature.
Having common sense is natural. Stupid people (like you) are messing with nature. I feel that my keychain applies here: Did someone pee in your gene pool? That is the only explanation I can come up with for you being so hateful and stupid.
quote: Homosexuality is by far the most debated on this forum, and it gets old hearing the "gay-hater" label...it's like me as a Christian cannot hold any view or position whatsoever that is contrary to the mob rule's view.
Yes, christians can hold opposing views toward the "mob," but the entire basis of Christianity is Love. What does it matter who loves who? Love is Love, and that's all there is to it.
I could get into this much further, but I don't see the need to, so I won't.
Just recently a woman up here in Alaska admitted to being molested by a catholic priest for several years as a child.
quote: That's just wrong. Gay sex. Nasty and wrong.
Then don't think about it.
quote: but Heterosexual pedophilia has not occurred therefore I don't have to acknowledge that all though I would condemn it.
Oh really?
quote: Police and prosecutors said Harold Young raped his two step-granddaughters (the children of Ronald Young's older sister) between January 1988 and January 1989, when the girls were 11 and 7 years old. At the time, Harold Young and his wife were managing the Skagit Valley Mobile Manor, a mobile-home park.
"He used his status as a grandfather and then scared my daughters with his threats if they told me or anyone else," the girls' mother wrote in a statement filed with the Skagit County prosecuting attorney in December 1989. "It has left a lasting effect on me and both my daughters. They will have to grow up with this haunting them, and I feel it will keep them from leading a normal adult life when it comes to marriage and children."
Actually... yes. Many of the people who were bringing the priests to court were men and women who claimed to have been raped by the priests when they were younger. Gee, I thought you said you knew that!
quote: I can picture Comedy Central's The Daily Show cutting to a clip of an idiot saying this quote trying to act all intelligent as today's "Moment of Zen".
Heh. That'd be great.
quote: FYI: Homosexual Pedophilia does exist (that means an adult having intercourse with a child of the same sex) as well as Heterosexual Pedophilia, but Heterosexual pedophilia has not occurred therefore I don't have to acknowledge that all though I would condemn it.
There have been women who have said they were raped by their priest as children. It's not as publicized because the homosexual side of the story is more shocking to the public.
quote: Gay guys: What the **** compels you to be gay?
Paint****er: What the **** makes you want to be straight?