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Picture of xsavedbygracex
Registered: March 21, 2003
Posts: 84
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Criticism.... i think everyone needs it. Seriously, without people telling you how they truly see you, people are not ever going to change. It may break some relationships apart, but we need to be honest with each other, or people are going to be living a lie that they don't even know about. So yeah... don't be afraid to criticize people, as long as it's the truth.
Registered: December 29, 2002
Posts: 1854
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Lol thanks for the encouragement, ghettobabypriness Smile. I'm sorry about your friend. Send her my best wishes, okay?

Also, freshynoisy2003, I agree with you, we do need to do something about this and I'm glad your doing something with your problems.I hope everything turns out well for you and if you ever need help, I would be glad to help

Bye N have a nice day

Going to my next boring easy class................... I wish this day was over with Roll Eyes. I usually love school, not this is just pathetic, where is the hard work and learning?
Picture of cosmicdream
Registered: February 08, 2003
Posts: 1472
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jman, yeah...i guess you're right about that.
Registered: April 24, 2003
Posts: 83
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but some truth might hurt other ppls feeling ya know.


ignorance is bliss... and nothing hurts worse than the truth... but which is better?: not knowing what's coming at you and facing the consequences, or knowing what's coming at you so you can be prepared for the consequences? without criticism, some people are hurting everyone in their path and not knowing it... just an example of what it could be...
Picture of geminiangel521
Registered: August 17, 2001
Posts: 6970
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Constructive criticism is the only helpful form of critiquing. Otherwise, if it cannot help, any type of disparagement is undoubtedly needless.
Picture of caerat3
Registered: November 27, 2002
Posts: 1381
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I know I shouldn't kill people, but if i killed every person who hurt my friends, I wouldn't regret it very much.
*thinks for a second* That would be really gross, hiding a bunch of bodies in my closet.*Thinks again* Is their a song about that or something?Goes like:Sorry Ma.I never meant to hurt you.Cleaning out my closet tonight. Eminem i think.Dunno
Don't answer that question
~Luthien
Registered: April 18, 2003
Posts: 18
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I feel your pain!!!!!Well not the physical part but the emotional part, i'm in the same boat!!!!...well not moastly me but my friend, she has been thru 3 rapes and an abusive family, i feel sorry for her. But teddy keep smiling because the only reason ppl critisise u fer stupid reasons is cuz they're jelous of u....
luv yah
oxoghettoxo
Registered: April 18, 2003
Posts: 18
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if we didn't have critisism then how would you kno wut is really going on thru pplz minds...thats like the routine thing "does this make me look fat????"...i find that hillarious how ppl ask if clothing makes u look fat, well if ur pants had butt cheak padding then you may look fat!...but critisism helps us alot...teachers would critisise ure work to show you how to do better, if they never critisise you then how can u get better???...Everyone would b perfect(what the hell is perfect n e ways???)...well critisism is important but it depends on the level...critisising another's race or beliefs is just not fair but critisising in order to help someone but other than that it's just plain rude!...so shut ur hole if u have nothing better to say!
Registered: February 20, 2003
Posts: 93
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Teddy,

I know what you mean, when you say that there are people who teased you and all. That's why ism is so bad. It isn't right to tease others and make them feel bad. Wouldn't you want justice and live a better life? I know that I would, and am doing something about my problems.

Peace
Registered: February 20, 2003
Posts: 93
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Teddy,

I know what you mean, when you say that there are people who teased you and all. That's why ism is so bad. Wouldn't you want justice and live a better life?

Peace
Registered: December 29, 2002
Posts: 1854
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Yea your right some truth hurts others feelings like me.

I can't handle it well. I mean I will have an emotional breakdown and I would completely change or do anything for the person.

Creepy isn't it?

Roll Eyes Darn it me, can I be any more idiotic.

Bye N have a nice day
Picture of cosmicdream
Registered: February 08, 2003
Posts: 1472
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but some truth might hurt other ppls feeling ya know.
Registered: December 29, 2002
Posts: 1854
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Nah, it is really okay. Don't be sorry

It's all gravy don't ya know?

LoL Bye

Have a nice day
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Registered: November 27, 2002
Posts: 1381
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I'm sorry people are so mean to you.They were like that to my friend Philip.I'm not very strong at all, but i don't think i'd ever put up with someone doing that to me or anyone else for that matter
~Luthien
Registered: December 29, 2002
Posts: 1854
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I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings so I will shut up how I feel. It has been working well for me, yea I get beat up a lot, hurt a couple of times but it's all cool.

I'm use to the pain.

Bye N have a nice day
Picture of caerat3
Registered: November 27, 2002
Posts: 1381
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i know what you mean.I wish My chapel chior instructor would tell me that he doesn't want me to do harmony because it causes all the girls who are dependent on the two strongest singers (me and my friend, who also can sing harmony) to mess up.I didn't notice untill he gave us a recording from our worship leading at fiesta and i heard how awful we sounded.No wonder he would occasionally ask us to sing in Unison!I would have run away screaming "SHUT UP!YOU'RE KILLING MY EARS!" lol
Smile
~Luthien
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