Hello guys and gals iam wondering if i could get some opinions on why some girls cant be in love wiht her best friends boyfriend? i mean i love the guy and shes probably mad about it but i cant help it. but i dont think she should worry she has him i dont.Ive waited a long time for him and now i need some help do i wait anymore or just give up (its been almost 4 years now)

Well do you think they will be together much longer? And is she happy with him, because you have to think about your friend also.

I mean theyve broken up and gone out a cppl times and evry time he seems to cry and he always tells me how it hurts soo bad and that he loved her soo much and then ide wish i could change all of that but then when i do she comes along and takes him away again and as much as in love with her he is he seems to take her back all the time i just dont know anymore shes never told me anything but shes always told me the things she hates about him and we would egt into this big discussion about it all the time

Why do you think she's playing with his heart? Has she ever told you she's cheating on him or anything like that? And has he ever tried to kiss you or make a move on you?

well me and him are best friends and ide never dream of grabbing away another girls man. Also i know we wont do anything if we were ever alone. we have been alone a couple of times and yes weve had the chance to kiss or whatev but i didnt because hes hers not mine. I dont know why she keeps thinking we will? i mean doesnt she trust her own b/f? i say if u cant trust them leave them. Someimes it feels like shes playing with his heart they've been going out on and off and hearts keep getting broken. Sometimes i think he might be happier with me because i would never imagne of hurting him in anyway, and i dont know how many times she has broken his heart. But then again he says he loves her so i guess ill let him do whatev he wants.

Well I think it matters on what you think would make him happy. Do you think he'd be happier with you or with her? Just something you may want to think about. Love is very hard to just forget about, I know. Do you think you would ever do anything with him that you know your friend wouldn't approve of? I don't see anything wrong with it but you should talk to both your best friend and her boyfriend. Hope I helped.

HEY

It's just because men have the reputation of wandering eyes. And although you may have no intention of "stealing him" and she may trust him, there will always be that awkward balance.

If I were you, I would just try to stay away from the best friend's boyfriend for a while. Love is a terribly forceful emotion, and though you may care about your friend, love can always overcome you and you could do something you may regret, and he may regret.

well hurt feelings iam in the sme situation as u are but all i can say yea its been along time but give it more time if u love him then wait for him. now that might not be the best help but if u dont think us hould wait anymore then let him know how u feel if u havent yet maybe that will change some things who knows maybe he has some feelings for u that he hasnt been able to bring up well i hope i helped