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Picture of BekahBaby07
Registered: February 16, 2005
Posts: 2
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Question:
Well I have been dating this guy for about 4 months im 14 about to be 15 soon and he is 17 about to be 18 well just resently we broke up for a day then we got back together well his mom dosent like are age diffrence and she told him that if he dosent stop talking to me he will go to jail wat do you think we should do because we really love each other.... Confused

Choices:
stay together
forget each other
secrety date

 
Picture of blodybla13
Registered: February 17, 2005
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well im 13 and me and a 16 year old just broke up. just keep gpin out just dont tall nobody!!!!!!!!!!!! Big Grin


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Picture of yogore
Registered: February 02, 2004
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the "broke up for a day" makes me think it's not a very good relationship anyways. It doesn't sound like it's a very mature situation.


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Picture of Ohiosweetgirl
Registered: November 30, 2004
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Aww, I'm sorry to hear that Jenos! Frown Remember I still <3 you! Smile That's gotta mean something.


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Registered: May 03, 2003
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When I was 17 I was dating a 14-year old, and her parents had problems with it. We had been going out for 11 months before she decided to break up with me because she wanted to 'try something new.' It wasn't until afterwards that I found she had been cheating on me for months with my best friend. Heh.


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Picture of Ohiosweetgirl
Registered: November 30, 2004
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Well said Helios Smile

You are only 14, you have plenty of time to worry about these things later. As Helios said, if he really loved you then he'd wait until your atleast 16. And he has nothing to worry about jail-wise as long is there is not sexual relations happening. I don't think that age really matters expecially on 4 yrs. but if he cared then he would wait. And who knows maybe his mom is actually looking out for you. Maybe she feels that your too young to know what love is and that you might be manipulated into things. How do your parents feel about the situation? You should seat down and talk to them about it as well to know what they think.


"I Dream away everyday, Try so hard to disregard The rhythm of t he rain that drops, And coincides with the beating of my heart"
Picture of HeliosLoire
Registered: December 02, 2003
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Wait until you turn 16. If he can wait that long (for you to turn legal age), then you are really in love. If he can't, its a fling.

I also don't see why this is a problem, unless there's sexual relations. I don't see why you're dating at 14. I don't see why you're dating someone that old. I don't see how, if you can't even punctuate, you can differ from true love and a fling.

But that's just me.
Picture of risika2004
Registered: April 03, 2004
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I think you should learn grammar and punctuation.


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