I have a problem. I have MSN, and my mom checks my history everyday, to make sure that I don't do anything "bad". I rarely go on anymore. There is your background information.
There are two girls at school. They are mean to most girls and teachers. I have a group of six nine friends, but only 2 go on MSN, plus another boy I talk to.According to the 2 girls, I tell everyone on MSN to **** off. My mom checked my history, and I hadn't told anyone that. They have been bugging me for a couple days now, and I have told my parents. These two girls have also been bugging me and my best friend to quit the volleyball team (only two weeks left though) because we are not good.
Originally posted by OttoTheGreat: Why would they have a reason to bother you? Perhaps they are lesbians or smthing if they really are botherin you that much.
Yeah, cuz we all know lesbians are prone to random bitchiness like that.
well, one may be lesbian... but the other talks almost not stop about this one boy...
anyway, thanx for you're help everyone. It really helped my confidence!
Here's what you do: ignore them. When they come up to you and mess around with you (so you can't ignore them), laugh at them as if you know something they don't. The chances are pretty good it will throw them off balance. If you ever see them while you're with your friends, just snicker and point as if you guys know something embarrassing about them. Just flip the game around and play by your rules. Show them that you're not afraid to stand up to them and they should back off. Bullies only prey on the weak. The don't have the guts to push around people who won't let themselves get pushed around.
Originally posted by Aguagon: Edit: Rereading Otto's post, I think it was less a jab at lesbians and more of a "they must have a crush on you..." type thing. Sorry.
Yeah that was the direction I was heading for. Sorry if it came off sounding like that. Sometimes when I type and dont think things come off wrong. My Bad!
Originally posted by OttoTheGreat: Why would they have a reason to bother you? Perhaps they are lesbians or smthing if they really are botherin you that much.
Yeah, cuz we all know lesbians are prone to random bitchiness like that.
Seriously though, they're almost certainly bothering you because they're young teenagers and young teenagers are completely insane. Like Otto said, just try to ignore them if it all possible. If you're worried that staying silent will mean lasting damage to your reputation, consider that 99% of middle and high schoolers' brains are set aside for thinking about themselves. Everyone cares about gossip about other people a lot less than most people think they do. I know I would've been a lot more comfortable in high school had I known that.
Edit: Rereading Otto's post, I think it was less a jab at lesbians and more of a "they must have a crush on you..." type thing. Sorry.
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Honestly Fighting is always my last resort. Why would they have a reason to bother you? Perhaps they are lesbians or smthing if they really are botherin you that much. But you should just ignore them and if that dosent work really tell them to fuck off or you will go to the cops and file harrasment charges or a threat to that extent. Or just talk to them find the root of the problem and eliminate it. I find petty Highschool arguments not even worth my time. Let the rumors spred who cares as long as you know its not true and you keep your freinds close I say let them talk. They must really like me to take their time to do something.
problem, I'm not athleticly gifted, and I'm the type of person terrified of getting in trouble. I don't see them after school, because I live far away from them.
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