My friend Cherish has to be everywhere I go, even when I'm trying to be alone with my boyfriend Anthony who is annoyed with her. I told her and she threw a fit and forgave ME for being "unreasonable". I dont wanna hurt her or anything but when I refuse to do something with her she gets mad at me! I like to be around her but not as much as I am...how can I get it through to her without setting her off, again? Even Anthonys tried and she thought for that I should dump him.

This gurl is probably just afraid that she's gonna lose u! i've been there!one of my ex best friends wuz the same way! u should not dump the guy {just yet} buttry makin more time for her!! set apart a special hour or day just 4 the 2 of you and if she doesn't back off maybe u should reconsider ur friendship w/ her!!but choose carefully! remember 2 look at both relationships carefully b4 u do!! peace

yeah, and if she doesn't understand that then what's the point of being her friend? Friends understand each other and if it comes to that........you should probably tell her that.

If she was really your friend then she was understand where you are coming from. That doesn't mean that you should set her off but just tell her that you need or want to spend time with your other friends and your boyfriend and also that you don't always have to spend time with her.

That really sucks. You didn't say anything to her when she pushed you down the bleachers? Have you asked her what her problem is? i have a "friend" that thinks we're best friends but we NEVER talk. I don't get it. You'd think that if she realized that we hardly EVER talk, we wouldn't be best friends. Well, I hope that works out for you. Post and let me know how things are going.

You shouldn't leave the guy just because of your friend. She may be jealous of your time with your boyfriend.

My friend Cara wasn't really friends with this girl, she just kinda felt bad for her, but the girl was constantly teased because of her mini skirts (no offence to anybody but she didn't exactly have the right body for a mini) and she would go get Cara and say stuff like 'Well my BEST FRIEND Caralyn says I look good in it.' or something like that

We've been going out 4 1/2 months, I wouldn't break up with him because of that though. She's only been acting this way for the past couple of weeks, I've tried suggesting other things but she literally drags me sometimes. Today she wanted to go out to the volleyball court and I was on the bleachers with some other friends, I told her I'd catch up later and she pushed me down the bleachers to get me to go (I was standing on the 5th row) and caused me to twist my ankle and bend the rims of my glasses. I know her intentions werent to hurt me lol but well...you get it!

Man, that's a tough situation. I've had those kinda people in my life. Actually, right now. See, last year me and my friend Jessica were BEST FRIENDS, but she always got mad at me if I didn't do what she wanted to do. Well, this year, we've sort of gone our seperate ways. Everytime she would get mad I just sorta ignored it and showed her that I am sympathetic towards the way she feels, but at the same time I didn't make it out to be a big deal, ya know? So when she'd say, "Oh, let's go do this." I'd say,"Well, we do that every time. Do we have to? I wanna do ..." I know how you feel though, but eventually by the way I acted and who I hung out with, I showed her that I had other friends besides her, so it gave her the idea to go get other friends too. Plus, if you like your boyfriend, don't break up with him just cuz your friend got mad cuz he wanted to spend time with you! How long have you been going out anyways (if you don't mind me asking)?