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Registered: July 16, 2005
Posts: 3
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ok theres this girl that i have been going out with i wouldnt say the longest time but about four times and it was good at first but now it just seems like she doesnt love me its geting to the point were i dont care i love her but im not in love with her and i want to be but its hard when she doesnt care what should i do?
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Registered: December 20, 2004
Posts: 960
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Just talk to her, ask her if something is wrong. If something is then that might be it.
*Dances* dude... listen to your own drummer... and... Dance. (or play along)
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Registered: August 17, 2001
Posts: 6970
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Tell her you don't care, a feeling mutually shared by many of us on the boards. Woosh.
"We know how cruel the truth often is, and we wonder whether delusion is not more consoling"
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Registered: July 16, 2005
Posts: 21
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quote: Originally posted by f4cevansf4: how do you know she doesnt care??
Maybe the girlfriend doesnt do anything to show she cares???
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Registered: July 17, 2005
Posts: 7
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ditch the *****
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Registered: July 21, 2005
Posts: 37
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I kno for sure dat u should taalk to her and see why she is acting the way she is. Because i know from a females point of view we notice change a lot easier and early then guys so she might be sitting at home talking to her friends saying the same thing about you!
I'm so conceded I'm jealous of myself -Giovanni :-)
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Registered: July 12, 2005
Posts: 8
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how do you know she doesnt care?? 
**Now picture that...but everywhere!!**
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Registered: July 17, 2005
Posts: 10
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Well, are you absolutly sure you want to go out with her? I'm not saying you should be in love with her, but do you honestly care about her enough to stay with her. And what makes you think she doesn't love you anymore? Has she done anything that has made you feel like that or do you think she's maybe just stressed out? Hmm, just stuff to think about. Hope I helped! 
"Half our life is spent trying to find something to do with the time we have rushed through life trying to save."
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Registered: March 10, 2005
Posts: 745
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okay, hoping I read that right (which is questionable due to the lack of commas and periods), youve only gone out with her four times? And you expect her to love you? Unless y'all knew each other a long time or y'all liked each other a lot before y'all started dating, love doesnt start on the first date. And at your age, you obviously arent looking for love. Not every relationship has to be about deep, passionate, his and her towels love, nor will it be. You dont have to stop dating this girl just because she doesnt love you. Now if she doesnt like you then yes, I wouldnt continue to date her, but love comes after a long, meaningful relationship.
"We have staked the whole of all our political institutions upon the capacity of mankind for self-government, upon the capacity of each and all of us to govern ourselves, to control ourselves, to sustain ourselves according to the Ten Commandments of God." - James Madison
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Registered: July 22, 2005
Posts: 2
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ask her whats wrong  it worked for me when i asked a friend of mine
"Quoth the Raven Nevermore"
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