My dad continually moves around from house to house and when i visit him friday nights i get frustrated cuz i have to get used to the new place and neighborhood. i dont even bother to make friends. He also just broke up with the perfect woman with a cute little boy that he bought a house with. I worry that he will get back together with his evil ex- ex-girlfriend and they will fight again. I dont want to deal with that, or remember everything bad that had happened before. It angered me how he knew that i didnt like her, yet he still stayed. he even moved in with her too after the last lady he rented with kicked him out cuz of her. i had to keep silent about where we were staying after he left her and i couldnt tell anyone who his newe girlfriend was. it was so hard to keep silent to my mom and grandma. its hard to study every woman and fix myself in a way that i wont embaress him or anger her. i am tired of moving, and im sure he is too. i worry that i will disapoint him, you know? anyone have advice as to what to say, or does anyone relate to me? i would like to know.

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Originally posted by yogore:
Why couldn't you tell anyone about her? you shouldn't listen to things like that, it's usually a bad sign. Why don't you talk to your mom about not going to your dads anymore?

People knew how bad she was but she was dads g/f, so no one said anything about it. i didnt want her presence, or whatever we deal with to ruin our relationship, so i stay by my dad and hate to leave him alone in it.

Why couldn't you tell anyone about her? you shouldn't listen to things like that, it's usually a bad sign. Why don't you talk to your mom about not going to your dads anymore?

Thanks, thiz, i'll try to do that. I'm sorry about your situation too. Hope that works out in the end for you. good luck.

geez im sorry...my dad had a gf that hes had forever and ive NEVER liked her bc she treats me like crap, not meaning she abuses me or ne bad like that, but when im over she just stays in the room and acts like im not there, or she acts like im a guess saying that i cant eat or drink something in my own dads house. also she always gets mad when i leave my shoes by the door or my toothbrush or shampoo in the bathroom and puts in back in my room, its really annoying but my dad decided to marry her a while ago, and asked my sister and i if we approved, of course he made her promise that she would treat us better, and i guess you could say she did at first but i dont think shes changed much at all. but w/e. im sorry that you are having so much trouble with your dad and his many gfs made you should ask him if yall could go out to dinner and realllly talk to him about it, i dont understand why he would be disappointed in you afterall hes putting you in all these awkard positions that arent fair to you. just remember that its not you fault he makes the decision he makes, so really tell him what you think of all these choices bc maybe it will go better than you think, unless something extremely bad would happen i dont know what it would hurt just to have a serious talk with him about it.