I've never seen so much immaturity.

thats good!

I love my boyfriend and i won't ever break up with him!!!!

oOo alittle action going on! hahaha i'm...happy for you? yeah i think its happiness...

Yesterday i had the best time with my boyfriend cause we kissed!!!

Everything is better now

calm down. One of my best friends lost her friend from suicide. killing yourself is not the answer and (btw i'm a christian) satan is not some one you want to hang out with for eternity. Everyone gets overwhelmed with life. I few nights ago i cried myself to sleep because everything just hit me at once. i was fighting with my parents, my stepdad got me with his belt, i got told i never did anything, my HOMEWORK wasn't done, i had a killer test the next day, one of my friends decided they hated me and called me a **** a hoe and a b*tch, and i was failing my american history class. but you gotta know god doesn't give you more than you can handle. follow your heart, express your feelings, and pray(it always helps me) You don't have to kill yourself.

Silo_Screamer_, you're not suicidal. You're simply overwhelmed by life. To say you're sick of life (or on the verge of killing yourself) is a very strong statement. Just trust me on that one.

First off, I know the feeling of being suicidal because for a very short time I thought about killing myself but that was six months ago and now as I look back on it I feel as though if I had gone through with it than I would have missed out on everything that has happened to me up until this very moment in my life and I think suicide is a complete cop out on life because it just shows that you aren't strong enough to handle the pressures and stress of everyday life. Now moving on after that huge long possibly run-on sentence. You shouldn't dump him unless you have a really good reason. And usually friends aren't always a good reason to dump your significant other unless you are ditching your friends to spend time with him or you just don't have anything in common with each other. Whichever way you chose, let what you decide be your decision, not someone else's. If they are mad at you to begin with for going out with him than they are more than likely the ones that should be dumped, not him, for not being true friends to you. There's only one way to deal with the issues that come with exes. Go to him and talk to him about it. The only person you can get a straight answer from is him. Trust me when I say this because I have had this happen to me and it doesn't feel nice but if you think you may like your ex again than get your head in the game and don't be playing both sides against the middle. Someone could get hurt. Think about the girl he's going out with. Think about what your friends are doing to you over the guy you are going with now and how that makes you feel. Don't mess with other people's hearts. The heart is a fragile thing to be messing with and it's hard thing to mend.

Okay. I've avoided clicking on this topic, but then I though "What the hay?" and I'm sorry I did. OMFG... that's all I have to say. Thanks.

Ok, kiddies. Lets calm down for a second.

There is a boy. And you like him. And your friends like him.
Easily worked out between you and your friends.

Or your boyfriend.

Saying you want to commit suicide over this is pathetic. You're still young. Either you want attention really bad, you want to get back at your friends who are obviously on this site ot you need serious mental help. I'm guessing its a combination of the first two.

life might seem like its ending life might seem like everyone is against you but im going to tell you that i lost my BEST FREIND from suicide!!!! what was so stupid about the hole thing is it was over a guy a boy friend he use to put her down all the time and he would hurt her phissically and mentally and to this day i hurt i cry everyday becasue i miss her so much and i sit and wonder why would she kill her self over a guy i can only say one thing but its if you listen to it or not k---- There is nothing more stupid then hurting or killing your self over a boy friend----- There are more serious things that will happen to you in life and if you are thinking about killing your self over a guy you are going to have one hell of a life a head of you i mean you will always love your very frist for real boyfriend and always think about him you know what i mean but there is nothing that else that i can say but dont kill your self you have no idea how many people will miss you and regret all the bad things that they have ever done dont make your friends feel like i do its horrrible k just think about it

amelia i told you i dont want you to brake up with him you are my best friend and i love you and i dont like him any more i just made my self like him too forget about that some one and to make him jelious.

loga...........i know that katlyn is mad and no one understands me and the reason why i got so mad at you last night is because that is my moral belifs that my cousin understands me but just because you don't think so doesn't mean i don't either!!!! you never know you might wake up and find me hanging on your freakin celling because i hung myself and no just because i'm going out with nate is not to make Adam jelous and you can't that somewhere down there i must be felling it because i'm not!!! you can't assume things like that and i don't care if you read this and get all ticked off because its my trutha dn i can't say it to your face because you'll argue with me and its hard because i want ot fu**ing kill myself and leave my body to be eaten by maggots and just rott away because thats all i'm good for!!!!!!!GOOOOO SUICIDE!!!!

what should i say when katilyn is flirting with him?? I NEED TO KNOW!!!!

I REALLY NEED ADAM!!! But i still like nate but i can't say i love him yet because we've only been going out for 4 or 3 days so yea and my friends don't care except for Katilyn she likes him and flirts with him and its REALLY ANNOYING!!!!

OK, FIRST: CHILL.

There, now that you've had a deep breath, let's talk:

First, remember that "Relationships will come and go, but Friendships last forever." No one likes to be ditched cause of a bf/gf. TRUST ME, it's happened to me. It sucks.

Next, liking you ex is USUALLY, not always, not a good idea. Again, been there, done that. Didn't turn out too great for me.

Third, who, ultimately, is more important to you?

Your boyfriend who you will probably not be with for very long.

Your friends who will be there through thick and thin.

Now, to give your bf a fair shot:

Your boyfriend who you really like and is sweet (assumingly)

Your friends who are getting mad at you out of jealousy.

Hopefully, I did not make this even harder or more confusing for you. Now, for my own personal opinion:

I would dump my boyfriend. Not only because he seems (not to be taken offensivly) the reason your friends are acting this way (unless they are normally b*tchy) and let my budds know they're still number one. If you know, 100% can tell that the only reason for their behavior is out of pure jealousy of you having the guy they want, then keep him. I wouldn't but it's your choice.

I hope this helped. Good Luck on it all!

ok silo_screamer_ yes... right now it may seem like you have alot on your plate and i don't know if there's any other problems right now in your life besides these two but, i will say, it could be alot worse. trust me i know. but anyway i'm here to help. i've been in this exact situtation before and trust me, in the end it's no big deal. about your friends, you need to get them all together and talk to them. tell them that you guys are friends and you want to remain friends and you want to trust them, but if they're gonna let something as little as liking a guy get in the way of your friendship, then they're not beeing very good friends. if they stay mad, ignore them for a little. they'll start to miss your company and they'll ask for your forgiveness. about your ex. you have to look at what made you dump him and why your with who your with now. plus u have to think, if you dump your current boyfriend, what if you can't get your ex to take you back??? then your alone... and that's not fun. anyway i have to go. post some sort of reply to this and lemme know if i can help any further. trust me this is not worth killing yourself.
steph

well i'm going to do something to him soon and not telling anyone what i'm going to do.

amelia you are my best friend and no one is mad at you you knew i really liked him and then you asked him out yea sure i was really mad but i am over it and i wont stop liking him but i would rather see you happy the me happy even though i havent had a boy friend im ok with it because i love you and i want you happy!!!!!!!!!!!!