OK when i was younger i was exually melosted but im over it becuase it was like 10 years ago and im better and feel better about myself now!!well a few days ago i had a party and my brother bought a bunch of alcohol!!!! we was all drinkin i mean there was alot of us there so we was havin fun and my friends got pissed and left the cops came but didnt bust us then my worst nightmare happened we left a guy and my friend nicole upstairs because he was throwing up and she said she would stay up there with him!!! so i was upstairs every few minutes makin sure he was cool and so was my brother!!! well later on about 45 minutes i wasnt tired and everyone was sleepin so i got up and went back upstairs to find my friend nicole naked and him without a shirt on he raped her and she is to scared to say n e thing and she wont even tell us what had happened!!!! we found out what had happened becuase he had been braggin about it to my friends boyfriend this guy is 23 years old he has been in prision has 3 kids and had been divorced!!!!! and my friend is 15 and was still a virgin!!! he was my brothers old friend!!!! thats why he was here!! ive tried getting my friend to say summtin for the last few days b4 its to late but she is way to scared he is going to hurt her because he is so intimidating to her!! she is confused and i feel guilty becuase i didnt make her come down stairs i let her stay up stairs with him cuz he was gettin sick and i figured he might want someone up there!!! he tried gettin me to stay but i didnt cuz he had already did some other things ot make me feel uncorfotable!!! i dont no what to do i mean i need some advice she needs some advice plz help me!!!!

Get your friend to some counsling. Even if she would have normaly rejected the idea of that, she's probably in desperate need of advice. And call the cops on that ass! I can't believe he raped her, and then bragged about it!

a) let your brother know

b) let her parents know and get her to go get tested and get treatment

c) you need to let the police know. even if he's a family friends its illegal and he raped her. and that's not ok. he needs to be punished for what he's done.

d) let your parents know

Don't torture yourself by thinking "what ifs." A lot of the time the "what ifs" don't happen and thinking about all of the worst case scenarios makes things worse.

Please call one of the numbers provided by YN. The hotlines are confidential, and the people there know a lot more about what to do in these situations.

I hope everything works out for you and your friend...and I hope you put the scumbag behind bars...

Im runnin out of choices and patience with this all i feel hopeless and like i am no good and cant help her i cant sleep i havent slet in 3 days because every time i close my eyes i see flashbacks of my past and when i sleep i see it happeneing to her an dnot being able to stop it!!! i dont no what to do? im lost and i dont no how to help!!! yea report it i no but what if i report it and she doesnt say n e thing!!!!

Seriously, report it, Green is right. Rape is not OK.

Sorry, for the double post but it won't let me edit. Check this out; suggested by YouthNoise:

Sexual Assault

1-800-656-HOPE

Best Wishes.

If she won't report the rape, *you* need to. I've watched enough episodes of Law and Order: SVU (I know, I know, not the most reliable. . .) to know that it should be reported *as soon* as it happens. If not then, it's just important to get it reported. If too much time elaspses, no one will be able to prove anything. If he was in jail for sexual offenses, the story should be even more believable, right? Make her go to the hospital or a free clinic to get tested for various sexually transmitted infections, too. That's imperative. Anyway, good luck and much love to you and your friends! Cheers- Green Oh, and also, next time try to lay off the alcohol. Fewer dangerous situations will present themselves that way.