i need some help advise whatever


i cut myself and one of my friends who knows told these other girls she didn't do it on accident she did it bc were fighting and she knows i can't stand these girls so now they act like they know everthing thats going on in my life and everthing i just want 2 tell them 2 shut up any ideas on how 2 handle this

Let them think what they want, and I don't know if you're friend is a real friend if she told them that just b/c she was mad at you. Just ignore those people and please stop cutting. It ain't worth it. Just start finding other ways to let out your feelings or energy.

Also, please learn to atleast punctunate I had some difficulty figuring this one out.

Exactly.

People just need to ignore Jamaica when she says things like that.

Jamaica, it's not that simple. You can't just "stop" cutting. Soon after you start, sometimes it becomes addiction. Like smoking or drinking. Yes, saying 'no' can be the hardest thing in the world if you're a cutter, this applies to any other form of 'temptation' as you put it.

As for LivinLarge, it's not always about emotional distress. It can be from a number of reasons.

Third, you're not necessarily endangering yourself. It's only endangerment if you make it so. For example, if you cut to deeply, that's endangerment. But I should hope that you know your limits by now if you're a cutter. If you are doing it just because, not for endangerment, as in freedom from the breakdown or problem, then you should know just to scrape or lightly cut. Not slice yourself to shreds. Know your limits. Cutting is not necessarily endangerment.

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I'm too proud of myself and I refuse to endager myself

yeah, me too!

I'm too proud of myself and I refuse to endager myself. First, you should start by getting those A's, that will make you feel better.

I honestly don't see how ppl can cutt themselves, 2 me it doens't make sense, i know that it is from emotional destress, believe me i know plenty of ppl who did cut themselves and even after hearing all their stories i still don't get it, and none of them rly have a reason..or @ least a GOOD 1..sry just had 2 get my point across

Hey everyone i know that im new to this site but i have something to say to razorblades.

Hey i know what you are going through i am a cutter myself and its hard to stop but like me you too can get better if you have someone to taslk to im not saying that you need to have a therapist nessecceraly but just someone that you can confide in. I am here if you want to talk my email isshrt783@yahoo.com

*sighs* I have been bitter for the past few days and this board seems to add up to my bitterness. If a friend of mine actually tells me to lighten up, I would just look up to the heavens and ask, "This board is one proof why I am getting bitter". I could lighten up, sure... that's easy, but with all the evils going on around here like abortion, suicide, drugs, smoking, cussing...???? How CAN I BE HAPPY OR LIGHTEN UP??? Nobody seems to heed my advice of saying NO to all temptations. Is it really THAT hard to say NO????

I have here a quote from Tom Hanks: Saying NO is actually more difficult than saying YES... and oh, how true it is.....

PLEASE can we just stop it with all the cutting????

Wow, if that was me in4ar3d you woulda had me convienced to stop!

I'm really not a mean person. I'm sorry.

Don't cut please.

Ignore them and look happy, meaning to them that they aren't getting to you and THAT will bother THEM.

You aren't living if you don't take risks/chances

hey, welcome to youthNOISE. There have been atleast 20 threads on this allready, so take a look at those.

It tends to aggravate people when they see the thread repeatidly. .