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Picture of Linds14
Registered: February 04, 2005
Posts: 1
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I have a best friend who has been going out with her boyfriend for a year but i dont exactly like her boyfriend i tried to be friends with him but it didnt work out and i dont like the way she is around him ! she acts different around him and now me and her arent as close of friends ( even though she claims that everything is the exact same as it use to be) i have tried to talk to her about it a lot but she gets mad because she thinks i get mad too easily about it and that she doesnt see how she acts different!! i try to explain it to her but she just doesnt understand.. she denies it how can i make her see that she is a different person around him?? and how to make her see that i am not just overreacting .... also he doesnt exactly treat her well but she likes him so much she tries to forget about it HELP ME please!!! iv been trying to deal with this issue for a long time but whatever i seem to do doesnt exactly work
Picture of peruchica
Registered: February 05, 2005
Posts: 66
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I know exactly how you feel. Except the issue with me is not that my best friend is spending to much time with her boyfriend but she is spending alot of time with her other friends. And there are certain ones that when she is around them she acts different. I have noticed that when girls get boyfriends they do anything to make them happy and they don't even notice when they are treating them bad. I have a cuz who had been going out with this one guy for a while. He didn't treat her right and it just wasn't a good situations. She eventually came to her senses and dumped him.

You have tried talking to your best friend already. That is all I think you can do. Well you can also pray about it. There is power in prayer. You are only 13. Your best friend will most likely go back to normal. Don't loose hope.


I wish I could be like my dog Cloe and fall down in complete obedience to God. - Miss Teen Illionois
Picture of geminiangel521
Registered: August 17, 2001
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What?


"We know how cruel the truth often is, and we wonder whether delusion is not more consoling"
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