I view this world as this place that is yet to be solved. There is so many problems in this world today and it leaves me wondering why? The things people do is ridiculous. So you ask, how to deal? Well find something that you take an interest in. I take an interest in the spoken word. It is a stimulation derived from the depths of your soul. All you have to do is put it into a word format and you have spoken word. It takes the edge of all the bs we have to put up with on a daily basis. And most importantly, it keeps me from saying what I have to say out loud and getting in trouble. Anyways\, enough of my boring life. Being that it is my first time on this site, I would love for someone to give feedback. Write back and tell me how you deal with life.
there is only so much that you can do to solve the world. love. i really think that this is the only way to do anything. i know that it's really hard. and sometimes i have a hard time loving people myself. but you're a lot happier when you love people even when they don't love you back. it makes people jealous because it takes a strong person to love people that hate them. why take the easy way out?
a person is only as beautiful as their personality
quote:My mom is talented in every kitchen and home-y... that's how she ended up owning a chocolate shop/cake shop, and she's a very good home decorator. My dad is good at being a doc... and a great father at the same time. I guess that's a huge ability when you work many hours on a stressful job.
hey, so is my mom!! SHe once made us skirts just from sewing cloths and she is very good in baking cakes and salads and all kinds of sweets. She took cuisine classes once and i think she really is so good too. My dad is a very good writer.. Im proud of him for being editor-in-chief! hehehe
quote: My sis looks more like mom. She's got curly brown hair (while I'm jet black dead straight haired) and a bit of a round face, and she's got beautiful brown eyes. ANd my skin is white in brown-peachy way and hers is white in a yello-ish way. I find it weird, I know see various tones in the generalization "white" skin tone.
My 2 sisters look more like my mom and i am more like my dad although my being quite chubby comes from my mom.... My highschool sis is taller than me... hehe. i envy her sometimes but now, i am confident about my body. Also, im the only sis who is different in skin color... i am more fair-skinned than my 2 sisters.. we have Spanish blood from my dad's side and thats why they always call me mestiza.... and my 2 sisters are more Filipina than mestiza... hmm... but i also like tan skin because its nice too.
quote:i guess... but what is the point of caring and paying it forward if we dont try to correct some mistakes??
One can try, but you have to think there's a chance he/she might not do it.
quote: Really??? wow... my sis is the opposite. She is not shy... at all. and also, i have to say, she really is fluent in speaking english and we didnt taught her anything... well, except the basics but she learned speaking in english from watching cartoons on tv and also in school. I have to say, in my family, we are gifted with writing and the ability to be fluent in english but me and my two sisters are different... I got the talent for writing, my other sis (the one in highschool) got this amazing speech talent and so is my 4 year old sis... sometimes, i envy them for having speech talent because whenever my sis and i argue, she can fire really rude remarks at me and i cant fire back right away because i am not good in delivering speeches... In fact, reciting in class is what i hate. I prefer writing instead... Oh well.... i am curious to see what your sis looks like.. she must be really pretty too.
My sis speaks English and Spanish fluently. Like every Puerto Rican. She'll learn (from living in the Caribbean) some papiamento as she grows. I'm good with languages, writing, healing on reiki, painting, sculpting, playing my hapr, boxing, and speech. I'm excellent at the whole speech-giving thing... I love doing it. I miss it.. o My mom is talented in every kitchen and home-y... that's how she ended up owning a chocolate shop/cake shop, and she's a very good home decorator. My dad is good at being a doc... and a great father at the same time. I guess that's a huge ability when you work many hours on a stressful job.
My sis looks more like mom. She's got curly brown hair (while I'm jet black dead straight haired) and a bit of a round face, and she's got beautiful brown eyes. ANd my skin is white in brown-peachy way and hers is white in a yello-ish way. I find it weird, I know see various tones in the generalization "white" skin tone.
"Regardless, I have always, and will always, succeed."
quote:The thing is people don't stop or continue or whatever by other people. At the end of the road, we have to accept they make the choices even if they're good or bad.
i guess... but what is the point of caring and paying it forward if we dont try to correct some mistakes??
quote:When visitors come, my sis hides. She's soooooooo shy. When they're not home, she makes an insane mess. I mean, in my house, there are toys in EVERY room. Even in the bathrooms and in the backyard. And in my room she gives me her stuffed animals as "presents".
I'm gonna take a pic of her today or tomorrow and post it.
Really??? wow... my sis is the opposite. She is not shy... at all. and also, i have to say, she really is fluent in speaking english and we didnt taught her anything... well, except the basics but she learned speaking in english from watching cartoons on tv and also in school. I have to say, in my family, we are gifted with writing and the ability to be fluent in english but me and my two sisters are different... I got the talent for writing, my other sis (the one in highschool) got this amazing speech talent and so is my 4 year old sis... sometimes, i envy them for having speech talent because whenever my sis and i argue, she can fire really rude remarks at me and i cant fire back right away because i am not good in delivering speeches... In fact, reciting in class is what i hate. I prefer writing instead... Oh well.... i am curious to see what your sis looks like.. she must be really pretty too.
quote:I dont hate... i just want them to lessen it... also, if you dont tolerate too much, it means you care.
The thing is people don't stop or continue or whatever by other people. At the end of the road, we have to accept they make the choices even if they're good or bad.
quote: Like, with my 4 year old sis... she keeps on making a mess with her toys whenever we have visitors and if we just let it go, she will never learn and my dad doesnt tolerate it too much and today, my little sis doesnt make a mess anymore when there are visitors... she does make a mess, but only when there are no visitors around.
When visitors come, my sis hides. She's soooooooo shy. When they're not home, she makes an insane mess. I mean, in my house, there are toys in EVERY room. Even in the bathrooms and in the backyard. And in my room she gives me her stuffed animals as "presents".
I'm gonna take a pic of her today or tomorrow and post it.
"Regardless, I have always, and will always, succeed."
quote:As I said, if you don't tolerate everything (by tolerate, I mean forget about it no matter how much you hate it), you'll go insane with anger. Which life is too short to have.
I dont hate... i just want them to lessen it... also, if you dont tolerate too much, it means you care.
Like, with my 4 year old sis... she keeps on making a mess with her toys whenever we have visitors and if we just let it go, she will never learn and my dad doesnt tolerate it too much and today, my little sis doesnt make a mess anymore when there are visitors... she does make a mess, but only when there are no visitors around.
As I said, if you don't tolerate everything (by tolerate, I mean forget about it no matter how much you hate it), you'll go insane with anger. Which life is too short to have.
"Regardless, I have always, and will always, succeed."
quote:Not tolerating makes you hate. If you don't think a person is a good example, just don't be like them, if you insult them or try to change them you'll just get stressed out and waste emotions. I mean, you don't have to agree with someone, but respect them, that's all.
tolerating too much is not good... and i hate to argue so that is all im going to say. Period.
Not tolerating makes you hate. If you don't think a person is a good example, just don't be like them, if you insult them or try to change them you'll just get stressed out and waste emotions. I mean, you don't have to agree with someone, but respect them, that's all.
"Regardless, I have always, and will always, succeed."
i deal with life by not tolerating too much. If i see that one person is doing a bad example, i will not follow that person's example, rather, i would tell that person (like my friends for example) to lessen those bad habits they are doing. For me, it is a matter of caring, not just for today, but for tommorrow... No one will ever help anyone if not one person will start acting toward what is good and right. Sometimes, i find it hard to spread my goodwill mission, that saying NO can be as powerful as saying YES and that in life, we shouldnt always say YES.... Like, YES to drugs, YES to sex and all that... We also have the Power of saying NO and it can truly make a difference if you will stand up for what is good and right even if the rest will not.... I find that challenging and it gives me a sense of duty, power and responsibility that by my good examples, at least people can see and then in turn, they will pass it forward.... To me, in life, i refuse to follow the crowd. If the crowd is walking toward the bad road, i will stay behind and walk toward the good road.. I am a big believer of Jesus and he says that we should be examples of what is good and avoid evil as much as possible... In this world, PEACE will never reign, if not one will make a good difference and stand up for what is good or right. That is how i deal with life.... and ever since i followed that philosophy, my life has and is great!
Party a lot. Most people use that for an answer. But hey, then again, most people don't even know their own name, much less where they are (As in location)
The man who smiles when things go wrong has thought of someone to blame it on. - Robert Bloch
i usally get mad or depressed u a lot and i go home and listen to my music to calm me down.........yea......it works and then i found that cutting myself doesn't help so i listen to my music.
Sometimes you can't fousing on EVERYTHING that is happening. There has to be bad to see the good though. I am glad you found your voice. I deal by writing poetry and talking to my friends sometimes. PS: welcome!
Hope for the best and expect the worst............take whatever life throws at you...
Take each day as they come. Don't try to solve all of tomorrow's problems today and don't regret the things you did yesterday. Develop your own ways of how you deal with things. No one deals/handles a situation the same as anyone else.
quote: And feel free to laugh anytime, no matter how tragic the moment is.
Celtic is right. If a moment calls for laughter, even when the moment isn't right, than go ahead and laugh. It's your way to deal with whatever's going on.
I have not yet reached my goal, and I am not perfect. But Christ has taken hold of me. So I keep on running and struggling to take hold of the prize. My friends, I don't feel that I have already arrived. But I forget what is behind, and I struggle for wha
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