In gr 9 i had a close frnd who i spent my whole time with. This year (gr 10) we met another girl who we wanted to be our frnd. My frnd and the new girl have classes together, while im all alone... they talk to eachother more and joke a lot too now. The new girl moved close to my house so everyday we walk to school together. Our conversations are awkward, maybe because i try too hard to make her like me.... i was once telling her a story and she said i told her the story b4, she also said i was getting boring, but in a way that she ment tht she was jking..it hurt..and one time i was leaving the two together i said as a joke "don't get bored without me" and the new girl said "ya right".....whenever they tell a story, they look at eachother and not me, they also talk about their religion (muslim) a lot, while i shut my mouth and listen..... I can sense that the new girl doesn't like me and she wants me to get new frnds.... One more thing that she did was, we were practicing handshakes (secret handshakes) and we were making funny ones and she put out her hand for me to shake then she slapped me (not hard) but she slapped ME not my frnd, ME.....I hate her now, but i have to get along for 2 more years, and gr 10 isnt over yet..... I feel like an outsider... I need advice...Thq for listening

dont think that its your fault that you havent yet found a place to fit. it will take awhile. there are many years ahead. to find people who are able to accept you as your are. friendships come and go, and by that you learn from any mistakes made. whats difficult to understand is that.. people who you meet in school only want to have friends so they dont feel isolated and alone, although when you get out of school no one will speak to one another again. dont be too worried about not having close buddies at school. once its over then you'll see that people outside of school are less immature and easier to eat along with.

I Have ever felt like that too when i was in grade 7

What i could suggest is : try to make new friends. Not with the intention to dump these friends of course, but it is always cool to know some more friends. More fun

Besides, it will give you a break. I am afraid if you keep focusing yourself in this problem, you will go on finding the reasons to Not like them, and it will end up on a hatred It is not good for you and them too. Taking a break will enable you to calm yourself and later see the problems more clearly.

Come on, you still young, so many people outside there waiting to be found by you

What you should keep in mind is : do not ever think that you are left. Cheers Someday you will find the answer.

Find people who share your interests and dump the ones who ridicule you. True friends care. I know it sounds cheesy, but I've found it to be true.

As to how to find good friends...I can't really help you. Each person has their own way of finding friends. Mine just...sort of appeared randomly. I'm not even sure how I make friends. I just do, for better or for worse. Meh. That was probably no help at all.

Well I have moved around alot, switching schools at least 5-6 different times.I had to readjust to many different enviroments. Just be yourself and everything will turn out fine. it worked for me.

just one tip. write in full words. the people on here hate you if you dont. trust me, i learned the hard way.

back to your problem. never try to hard to fit in. thats when everyone notices that you want to be their friend. some one in my group of friends was trying to hard to fit in and we told her to just be herself.

if your friends are still being bitchy and leaving you out. then DUMP them. you dont need people like that.

hope this helps. sorry if it doesent.