I am sick of going to US History now, every time im in there i feel like im being visually molested. This kid a couple of classes ago decided it was a great idea to tell me something. Well that day, im not gonna lie, i was wearing a pretty low cut shirt, but he asked me if i could be his partner in class, so i said yes. So we sat in class just talking, and he started getting really personal asking what ive done sexually with guys and all that. I told him that was personal and he kept asking so i told him i want going to answer him. At the end of class he told me that i was seriously turning him on and that he was getting hard, he told me that it was my cleavage and that i had a sexy body. I told him that he needed to stop because i have a girlfriend and that it wasnt cool to talk to me like that. He kept doing it, telling me that he wanted me in bed and stuff, Then at the end of class he grabbed me into a very tight hug, he put his hands on my butt and pulled my waist into his, so i could feel all that was going on down there. This really bothered me for some reason. I walked home and the whole way i was fighting tears, my girlfriend kept asking me what was wrong, but i decided not to tell her, she would surely beat the crap out of him. It still really bothers me, like i refuse to go to class now, but i really wish there was something i could do, without bringing in adults or the school. I just want him to go away. Please help me, I just need answers and suggestions..

That is sexual abuse. Tell the principle or teacher, because you told him to stop and leave you alone, and he did that.

First off, none of this is your fault. Telling an adult about this situation will only help you, I promise. This guy has clearly made you feel uncomfortable and has invaded your boundaries. My advice and strong recomendation is to tell a parent, adult, anyone. Good luck with everything!

-Shanny444

Yeah but i feel like im ratting on him for some reason, or like hes going to deny it and make me look like i just want to get him into trouble or something, like i feel really bad

I know you don't want to bring in adults...but it seems like that is going to be the most effective thing for you to do.

From the sounds of it, his touching you fell under the category of criminal sexual conduct. I am not saying you need to press legal charges against him, but you really should find at least one adult to confide in, whether it is your parents, an aunt or uncle, your history teacher, another teacher at school, someone from your church or other place in the community...

If you are upset to the point where it is interfering with your education, you need to confide in someone who has the ultimate power to do something about it, or who can help you bring it up to someone in the right place. Your parents are going to see the absences come report card time, so it is important that this be resolved before then...and of course, as soon as possible for you.

Good luck!