wow..I am so not confusing, I think. I think I am too easy to get. If I know a guy likes me and I like him, I dont make him work for me I just tell him i like him and he asks me out. I think some guys like to work for a girl. I dont know, but w/e.

letzBloud, I don't know about your situation but I'd definately say you're clean and nice smelling thats good. Why dont you let your hair grow out some? Most girls I know dont like when guys dont have hair on their heads.

thanks ampmaster, ill keep all tha in mind.

Dude when it comes down to it girls are confusing I've been kissed in my 16 years on this earth (and she wasn't related to me, I'm not that southern) I am currently kinda/sorta with a girl now (see all my soccer woes in post anything thread) and I keep getting mixed signals from her one minute she seems really in to me and the next she;s talking about the love of her life back in alabama so just get to know girls as friends play the game nice and slow like chess. you aren't being timed so really get to know her and when everything lines up just perfect make the shot. that is all I have learned about how to date girls and it actually woks okay.

PS don't be really intense it scares them off!

in my opinion i am nice to girls. i also keep myself groomed & kept. i used to have long hair & a goatee till a month ago, then i shaved it ALL off, so now im bald. i use Axe Body Wash, Axe Deoderant Stick, & Axe Body Spray (my favorite scent is Essence). i shower trice a day & i shave (both my face & head) every other day. i wear normal sized tee-shirts (not baggy but not tight), & beach shorts most of the time. i brush my teeth 3 times a day & i chew sugar-free gum all day, so my breath is usually fresh.

letzbloud, are you nice to girls? Do you treat them like they're special? Girls love it when a guy acknowledges us and treats us like we're worth something.
YOu have to know how to flirt with a girl and ask her out. Flirting well, actually I can't explain it. Asking a girl out: Don't ever stalk her or follow her around to the point of looking or seeming obsessive.
With looks there is usually always something else that can help. Check out your hair first. Get a cut that will frame your face and maybe make it look a little slimmer. Do you smell bad, I advise tag (or axe or Giovani). How do you dress? I do understand overweight guys dont look the best in they're clothes but are you wearing baggy pants and a shirt down to your knees? Try nice jeans, that fight normal, maybe a polo shirt. Wear colors that look good with your skin tone and maybe bring out your eyes. Does your breath stink? I always have listerine handheld spray thingy with me, works great anytime you feel not so fresh.
G2G Ill finish what I was saying later.

thanks for clearing that up.

he's a vet that left and has now come back for a while... he's online right now but he just said brb. If he comes back before I go to bed I'll tell him to get on here and introduce himself.

He posted on here below... if you scroll you'll see him.

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Originally posted by YouthVoice:
Hey Aguagon! I missed you.

whos Aguagon?

Hey Aguagon! I missed you.

thanks for the advice changedaworld. welcome to YN by the way.

Hey Matt,

I think that you seem like a great guy to date.If I were a girl that yoy were trying to talk to, I would want for you to ask me questions to just get to know me. Don't rush into "Hey I'm single!No not him...me over here!I love people!I believe in everything!HEY!OVER HERE!"You know what I mean?Don't automatically let people know that you're so available.Just let the girl know that you're interested by letting her know that you're interested in the person that she is on the outside.Let her know that she's a beautiful person,not just a beautiful face.

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what happened to likin the cute little blondes???? *sniffle***

I second that motion...

I've got the same problem in reverse...I was "sweet sixteen and never been kissed" and then it hit 17 and then 18...now it's approaching 19...and I have NO idea what my problem is. Just like Matt, I'm as normal as can be. I'm at a private university pre-law, in the Honors program. I like hanging out with friends and doing normal young adult things (except drinking and smoking...). I'm a normal height, just below normal weight. I don't understand it...

Just stop worrying about it is all the advice I can give you. Just use it as an opportunity to make great friends that will last a lifetime and have an amazing time without worrying about the girl thing. Especially in today's world, it's not expected that we will marry as young...you've got plenty of time...

all of the responses ive gotten so far on this thread have been encouraging. thanks everyone.

But Fina is single and has never been kissed, so mby it would be best to ignore him... Teehee... just kidding Fina, you know I'd go for you.

Ummm... As your YN fiance clearly I find you alteast some what appealing... that's encouraging right???

I'm a guy (a guy with limited experience, at that), but I've learned anything about girls in my nineteen years on this planet, it's this:

TEASE them. But do it in a friendly, playful way. If you do it right, you'll be flirting in a way that leaves you with all your dignity intact if things don't work out. Plus, it avoids that icky sense of putting all your feelings on the line.

I've had regular "mock fights" with every girl I've ever had a mutual attraction with. It sends all the right signals: you're assertive, unintimidated, fun to be around, memorable, etc. Plus it can amp up sexual tension like nobody's business.

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Originally posted by superspork:
yo...i'm a guy but i got the damn biggest tip u ever had

stop hunting the sex...just roll with it

thanks i guess.

yo...i'm a guy but i got the damn biggest tip u ever had

stop hunting the sex...just roll with it

i live in a town called Parks. the closest city nearby is Flagstaff which has like a 2500 population. & dont worry HurleyGirly, most guys i talk to prefer blondes to asians.

and i thought i came from a small town.....dude, go to the city and have some fun....you will so find someone worth your time.

and everyone seems to be wantin the asian girls lately...what happened to likin the cute little blondes???? *sniffle***