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Registered: November 30, 2004
Posts: 4514
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Everyone has a differenct idea of when they believe it's ok to lie. Some say always, some say never. I believe that it's ok sometimes. I think that honesty can hurt sometimes. Though I suppose they need to know the truth there are just certain times that you have to. In my opinion anyways. Like to a child for instance when they ask you what you think of their drawing that you can barely make out. What do you guys think? When do you think it's ok to lie, if you think it is?
"I Dream away everyday, Try so hard to disregard The rhythm of t he rain that drops, And coincides with the beating of my heart"
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Registered: August 10, 2005
Posts: 58
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does lying and "not telling about some thing " fall under the same catagory?
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Registered: October 21, 2003
Posts: 101
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i guess its ok to lie when u wanna save your ***...
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Registered: July 12, 2005
Posts: 11
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i think its like everyone said, you need 2 use your judgement when it comes 2 deciding about that 
wait for the one you love more than yourself
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Registered: June 20, 2005
Posts: 337
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iamastar...stop lying to yourself..
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Registered: June 22, 2004
Posts: 2343
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It looks like we all pretty much said the same thing. No one here can honestly tell you when it's okay to lie because when it comes down to it, it's not. You just have to decide for yourself and see if it's the right thing for you to do. If you're still wondering about it, than it's either not right at all [to lie] or just put yourself in someone elses' shoes.
I have not yet reached my goal, and I am not perfect. But Christ has taken hold of me. So I keep on running and struggling to take hold of the prize. My friends, I don't feel that I have already arrived. But I forget what is behind, and I struggle for wha
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Registered: January 29, 2005
Posts: 115
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It's not a problem to lie, it also depends on the situation. If it's very serious, life-threatening, I think it's best not to. A child asking if whether their drawing is nice or not, I doubt you want to hurt their feelings, besides it's a drawing, keeps them motivated. You can lie as a joke, but lieing continiously is a problem.
"Older men declare war. But it is the youth that must fight and die." - Herbert Hoover
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Registered: July 08, 2005
Posts: 28
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It depends on the situation, but it's usually not okay to lie from my point of view unless the situation is extreme.
I want something good to die for to make it beautiful to live.
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Registered: September 29, 2004
Posts: 3690
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It's always okay to lie. To your family, your friends, teachers, police, grand juries.  Just kidding. Lying is just one of those things where you use your moral compass to determine whether it's justified or not. And though honesty can hurt sometimes, on the same hand sometimes it would hurt more for a person to find out you lied to them, rather than telling them the painful truth.
A lo hecho, pecho.
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Registered: March 30, 2005
Posts: 3628
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It depends on the situation. Sometimes you can just don't answer the question or twist words around so you're not actually lying. Of course lying is wrong, but it can be justified at times.
"I imagine a lot of people tune in simply to watch reporters get bitch-slapped by Mother Nature, and frankly, who can blame them?� Anderson Cooper
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Registered: December 11, 2003
Posts: 9501
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Lying to protect can be justified at times. Little white lies are tolerable, but no lying should be done.
"Regardless, I have always, and will always, succeed."
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Registered: June 22, 2004
Posts: 2343
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I think that it's a personal and discrestional call. Yes, the truth can hurt but so can finding out that a lie has been told. Regardless of what the lie is and what the intentions are behind it, it still can lead to trust issues. Like I said, it's all a personal and discrestional call.
I have not yet reached my goal, and I am not perfect. But Christ has taken hold of me. So I keep on running and struggling to take hold of the prize. My friends, I don't feel that I have already arrived. But I forget what is behind, and I struggle for wha
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