i've been told that i'm great at advice, so instead of starting your own threads, everyone share their stories here, ask for help...whatever.

<to cinderella>
people take the chance to be mean on boards because you're not actually seeing the person. if people are mean, just ignore it cuz a simple thing that somthing said shouldn't be able to upset u

Fine bella, i am wondering why people are so mean on the boards half of the time? So why do you think that that is?

whoa, you just said porncorn...has that been pantented!?

haha, thanks.

bella i would just like to say-What a GREAT idea. I'm more of a helper myself...so I'll just sit back and watch you lol. (Where's my porncorn?) Tell me if you need any help (everyone!)

~Katz

how 'bout this one: observers can see a chess game more clearly than the players ~chinese proverb

Exactly.

a quote fettish?

bluebutterfly:glad i could help!
loudandproud: so do i...a new obsession:quotes. I wonder what that would be called quotalitis...quotiflu..i dunno.

[QUOTE]I think she did ask a question.[QUOTE]
*laughs* thanks for the advice yogore
the only problem is my mom can't be reasoned with...my dad can though....
bella, love the signature, it's my fav. quote!
hmmm...why isnt the quote working?

Thanks Bellla 4 ur advise it might help alittle but the facts are i dont have very many friends and i hate school and i dont have very many hobbies but no worries (lol) i'll find something to be happy about

I think she did ask a question.

quote:

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will i waste my opportunities that are only availabe when i'm young? what can i do to prepare myself that doesnt requre tons of money and that doesnt need to involve my parents?

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And I have to say, don't do things because your parents want you to. Have a talk with them about this later on and let them know that you odn't think it is the right plan for you to take. But until that time gets closer, don't worry too much about it. Except, if you want to travel, start saving money!

loudandproud: If you didn't look at my first post, i did not say what the limits were to advice. You can post anything here, that's the beauty of this website. Some people have problems that they are concerned with that don't involve the future. And that's not bad. If you have a question, ask it. there are no limits.

bella, is this only love advice or can other topics be adressed? what can you do when your dreams dont agree with your mom's view. ie: marrying after college and settling down and having kids vs. wanting to travel and experience new things and not settling down till later. who pays for classes on the different languages and has to feed the "free" exchange students - the parents. the whole thing makes me depressed, she thinks i should just find a nice husband here, close to home. i want to get away and explore (ok, so that might sound a little lame, but its true). she thinks traveling is a childish dream i'll grow out of....but what if i dont? i'm rambling, but this really concerns me. will i waste my opportunities that are only availabe when i'm young? what can i do to prepare myself that doesnt requre tons of money and that doesnt need to involve my parents?

That's the first question that stumped me. After some thought I remembered my best friend,(who i won't name). her dad and mom are divorced yet her mom is THE most supportive woman i've met.(she's staying with her mom.) Though it may be hard to pick who to stay with(if you can) try to do more constructive things. Maybe focus on the good things in you're life(ie: friends, school maybe, hobbies...) Sometimes there are just things in life you can't change, and it sounds like that's one of them.

Hey i need help... my parents just told that they're getting a divorse. I'm 13 and they say that the older u r the harder it gets.And personaly I agree.It gets easier after each day but it's still hard to think that u can't see ur mom or dad daily. It feels like I'm losing one of my parents. Please help me.
p.s.Ikki14Reed, thaks 4 the advise!
love yall 4ever,
Blu~4~u

Hey, Blu? I highly advise you NOT to put your full name on these boards. You never know who could see it.

Okay, here's the deal:

Let's say you like this boy and you have liked him since close to the end of summer and he finds out that you like him. But things have happened since then and he is with someone. You are always going to care for him but would you move on to find someon else or would you stay stuck where you liking him? Once you get over him and find yourself going back to liking him what do you do?

lilsoftball,
If ur bf doesnt trust u he doesnt deserve u but if u really love him like u said just caompletely ignore the other guy and if it hurts the other guy then appoligize and tell urself it doesnt matter how the 7th grader feels matters how u and the guy u love feels. See to me myself and my bf matters more to me than me and my friends.

p.s. I hope i helped!
Sincerly,
Chrystal L. Funck