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Picture of DarthWookie
Registered: June 12, 2007
Posts: 1
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OK theres this girl i work with i really like her and i talk to her whenever i can, i even got her number (she put it on my phone one night). But i have a problem i dont know how to tell her how i feel about her Frown or how i would ask her out on a date or something cause i get too nevous and afriad.Can someone give me some tips/advice on how to solve these problems

PS shes single to so i dont have to worry about that
Picture of noiseday29
Registered: April 17, 2008
Posts: 12
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listen, i dont really know the situation exactly but what i do know is that u shud do it in person otherwise u might as well not do it!first get to know her better and see if you really like her then observe how she'll be in a relationship..once u've got all the answers, u just gotta make the first move,practice and depending on the type of person she is, propose with flowers,chocolate,a gift or a nice poem(written by u of course)!!

good luck..
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Registered: February 10, 2008
Posts: 27
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via text theres nowt rong wid it not like ur dumpinfg her Wink


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Registered: April 15, 2003
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I believe I've found the source of your problem: "DarthWookie".


Those who profess to favor freedom and yet depreciate agitation are men who want crops without plowing up the ground, they want rain without thunder and lightning. They want the ocean without the roar of its many waters. Frederick Douglass
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Registered: June 30, 2007
Posts: 8
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YOU SHOULD ASK HER OUT AND GET TO KNOW HER OUTSIDE OF WORK
PLAY THE FIELD A LITTLE AND MAKE SURE SHE LIKES YOU AND THEN ASK HER OUT
GOOD LUCK


ITS BETTER TO BE REAL THAN FAKE... ID RATHER BE A TRUE SINNER THAN A FALSE SAINT
Picture of tbirdfly
Registered: June 20, 2007
Posts: 7
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You guyd are idiots. NEVER use the phone. Girls think it's immature... not to mention if you break up with her, it's extremely unclassy to text her. Talk in person or you'll seem like a doof.
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Registered: June 12, 2007
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you know i see where you are i had this same problem witha guy at my church i liked.. sometimes its hard to let people knoe how you really feel about them . so you just have to take the chance and let them know , just knowing you may not get the anwser you want.if yu want to ask her just go out to dinner as friends and see where that leads you . maybe the you can see if this gir l wants to be more than friends with you
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Registered: February 05, 2007
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Moved here from Randomosity. Carry on.


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Registered: February 05, 2005
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I don't like giving advice on thse subject because I don't know either of you and I don't know how she behaves with you. Even so, hint at it any way that you come up with, text her randomly some night and just ask how she's doing, or ask her to come have lunch or dinner or whatever break you guys get at work to eat, anything like that. Don't say it outright if you're not getting good vibes from her though, because that might cause one of those weird tense situations humans are prone to when we suspect these kind of things.
Just try to analize her behaviour towards you, does she adopt a different manner when you talk, does she treat you any differently from other people? try to notice these things and come to a conclusion, and be pesimistic, feelings tend to make us to optimistic when considering these things and it's easy to be missguided by other's actions.
If you're getting a good feeling from her just casually ask her out to do something perfectly normal, don't even talk about it as if it was a date, just something you'd do with a friend.
Hope that helps.


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