ok pplz. Dis iz me and i'm having trouble. Guess what kind...........Boy Trouble!! Well its like this i can't seem to bounce back from this one relationship that i jus got outta of. I mean i'm a cute gurl and all bnut i can't bounce back!! N e boy that approaches me I tell him i'm jus getting over something and i know mah friends getting sick of me.lol But the fact iz why can't i bounce back? I want to but its not happening. Help me out. plz?

sorry about the name mistake looked at the name wroung

symore i am the same way about the guy i stopped seeing we wore friends for ages and then i started going out with him but it all went wroung i dont no exactly what happened but ever since him or any of my mates are talking to me i know i didnt do any thing wroung only one of my mates are still here just goes to show you got to be carefull who your friends are as for the guy trouble your haven all guys are scum no affence youth guys but they dont realise that they are doing anything wroung till it all blows up in their face i think you should give the other guys a chance you sound like you could find a decent guy if you tried hard enough and if your friends are real friends they will give you time to start opening up and accepting one of these guys offers

I feel ridiculous. I'm looking at all these posts, and I broke up with my boyfriend of nearly a year last week and I'm fine. Really. Even last week I was fine. ::Shrugs.::

I just think, in order to get over a relationship, you need to not dwell on it. Just move on.

girl... i S0 know what youre going through.
for example... me & my ex boyfriend. we went out for almost 4 months & broke up 3 months ago. We broke up on a Saturday... & started majorly flirting again on Tuesday! The only reason I broke up w/ him was cause i heard he was gonna break up w/ me ((i didnt want to overload the pain so I did it first)) It seemed we were going out again... people would ask me & i'd say no, we werent. They'd ask him if he liked me. He said, no he didnt. So i didnt understand & was hurt when i saw him flirting w/ other girls ((only 2 others, but they whore around w/ EVRYY0NE so i wasnt really worried). This carried on till summer when I got over him. Wrong. I THOUGHT I was. This is our first week back into school, & he's calling me 'baby' again & just... acting like he likes me again. ((walking together to class, standing REALLY close together, hanging out together, & he's telling people im expecting his baby :P )) Well, im confused.

OVERALL, i mean to say that this is REALLY hard to get over sometimes. Try taking a break from seeing him... & during that time, D0NT talk or have any contact w/ him. Talk/flirt w/ other guys, & you'll find it much easier. I maybe next time you see him, you'll see you might have no more romantic feelings towards him :]
hope this helped.

so tru, so tru. i'll try it.

I know where you are coming from. I went out with a guy for two years (trust me, twas very serious).... then we broke up. (The only reason I'll tell you is that I had bruises on my arms and face on more than one occasion.) That was January. So, 5 months ago? I'm still heartbroken, but I'm trying to move on with my life; I put all my energy into school and band and really caught up with my friends. Now I'm doing better than ever in school. I've gotten so much better at my various instruments. I've really bonded with friends that I didn't really know that well. And I've found another guy. Actually now, I have a few people vying for my attention....) And he treats me like the princess that I am. ^^ My advice to you: Put your energies into things that you enjoy, be it school, sports, band, whatever. And start to talk with your friends. It does sound like you spend time with them, but that isn't the same thing. Don't just say how much you miss him. Ask about their lives and how they're doing. Go to the movies with them. Go to the mall. Do "girl things" and really bond. It'll help fill that hole.
<3 always
~allie

well, my guy moved so it's easier to forget about him in my everyday life. i guess it would be harder if i had to see him everyday but i don't

Failed relationships are horrible. I know, Im still trying to get over one myself. But you are still young. You have alot of time to figure out what you want and who you want to be with. Try to remember why it failed and use that to give you the strength to move on. Also if you concentrate on the things that you didn't like about him and the relationship, that will help some as well. Good luck.

Time heals all wounds. I'm getting over it. I am a big girl. LIke I said, we suck it up and move on

Give it time. Nothing lasts forever, your hurt included.

Girl, you can't get help from anyone else about this. Trust me, I know how you fell and you just have to suk it up and deal with it. I have to every day with a guy that I went out with for 7 or 8 months, and he just up and left me. He knew he was moving but didn't know when. Well, I asked him what was going to happen to me and him when he moved and that day was the last time I saw him. It was messed up, but he told me he'd come back. I just didn't know he was leaving that soon. He'd already cheated on me but he was drunk so I dunno. How old are you anyways? You shouldn't be thinkin bout guys this seriously if you're like 8, 9, or 10th grade!!! Post and tell me how this goes.