okay i broke off a relationship with one of my best friends because i didnt want to deal with the drama. but it was me this girl and then another girl who i was still friends with. but it seems lately she ditches me for the girl i dont like. i go away to my beach house in the summer and this summer she wouldnt even call me back about visiting for a bit. we are growing apart and right now we have been in a fight for about a month or so because when leaving school we were talking and she totally blew me off and ran over to the girl i ended things with. I dont know what to do because my friends are pushing me to be friends again but i never want to be her friend again. i am tired of sitting home on friday nights waiting for her to call me back about our "plans" what do i do?

I'm sorry to say I've had similar social problems. Unfotunately, I was part of a clique in middle school...and once I had a conflict with one person, the rest of the group pretty much chose her over me. I stayed on friendly terms with them, but we just grew apart. I became more involved in things at school and then at my church and ended up with a bunch of new friends who I consider more near and dear than the ones who ditched me.

Instead of waiting around for someone to return your calls about Friday night plans, maybe try something new. Take a fun class like an art or dance class through your community. Get in the habit of hanging out with your parents on Friday nights (trust me, it can be more fun than it sounds ). Start being friendly with some people in your classes and see where that takes you.

Any kind of person with a philosophy like the one in your signature won't be alone on Friday nights for long.

Sometimes you can't escape the drama. I've graduated high school and I still can't escape it. Especially in our D&D games. Though that is why we only allow players who have graduated. Or are of mature mind! Haha.

Okay, so heres the deal.I was totally in the same situation and you really just have to sit all of your friends down and talk to them. Let them know that you seriously need some time apart from this chick. If they totally don't listen then that's their loss screw them. And if they totally snub you then I'll be your friend!
"Love is the red rose on your coffin door"