I've been dating my boyfriend for around 5 months now, it's the longest relationship either of us has been in, neither of us has cheated, and we both love eachother but have never gone farther than kissing.

Recently however, I've been feeling weird about our relationship. I never feel like doing anything with him and when we do go places I feel lazy and like I'm depressed or something.

Do people just go through this in a relationship like a "stage" or does this mean I've lost interest permanently?

time to spice things up. Why do you even date someone if you arent going to do anything more than kiss?

I've never had this experience. At the beginning of my relationship with my current boyfriend, his best friend told him that we should slow down and not see each other as much or we would get bored. We didn't listen to him and...we never got bored.

So, I'd say you may have lost interest. But take Celtic's advice anyway.

Bleh. I know exactly how you feel, coastal. i have that too. Sucks, don't it?

I hate to be Johnny Raincloud, but that sounds exactly like my ex-girlfriend and I right before we broke up. We were all gung-ho at the beginning of our relationship, but after six months or so, things started going downhill. Neither of us could figure out why. I chalk it up to us getting too hot too fast. No, no sex, but we left no room for improvement in the relationship. My advice: stick it out, try to find some way to keep things going. Or if a break-up is inevitable, try to do it cleanly. It makes everything a lot nicer later on.

i wouldn't know me and my girlfriend have been going out for 2 years and im sixteen we have never been bored like that

Some people are just boring. It sucks but I'd wait it out a bit longer.

And for the "only went so far" thing... you are **looking it up*** 16. Meh, wouldn't worry about it too much. Props on a longish relationship though. You guys are probably mature enough that you could just kinda casually bring up that you want the realationship to go somewhere, whether that means sexually, or something else.

you might be bored with the relationship, but that's ok you might need take some time out as lame as that might sound. Maybe your just depressed, about other things you aren't aware of. There are many things that could be happening but it's you who has to choose what to do. Don't do anything you don't want to do.

I don't get what the title has to do with anything...

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I never feel like doing anything with him

My friend tried asking her boyfriend to go see a movie with her and his repsonse:
'Yeah! I'll call Matt and Alex too!'

She was really sad...

Absence makes the heat grow fonder. Try a small break or something. If you go out, on say, weekly dates (every friday, for example), you're likely just bored of the same routine.