Look im feeling so depressed right now i have been having thoughts of suicide and its bothering me. let me give you a background to the situation my dad has cancer so i may lose him soon and it seems like all my friends except for a select few have turned on me and i just broke up with my GF because she was cheating on me with ANOTHER CHICK! i just feel all alone and abandoned. somebody please help me i feel so alone! this overwhelming sadness just wont leave me alone and i just cant get over my ex and get on with my life. i may seem fine when you talk to me in person but when im alone. like i am now by my 'pooter i feel all this sadness swell up inside me and i just cant help but cry! someone please help!

"1st off about my dad hes doing ok so far hes been undergoing chemotherapy, and well about why i pine for a girl like that, I cant really explain it it just feels like a huge chunk of me was ripped out and no my body feels out of balance. i feel like i lost a part of myself. and well she just affected my life so much and I truly loved her."

I am happy for you about your dad . I hope it does go well .
I sort of understand your girl thing too coz my friend used practically those same words when he told me what happened .
Just talk allright . Post here . Talk to somebody . But dont start getting hooked to something worse .

Waaa! Call the waaaambulance!

If you're so stressed over because of your ex, and (god forbid) your ex is cheating on you with a girl, then do something about it. You know, there are real life solutions in real life. The internet should not be a place you turn to for everything. Oh, and talk to this friend of yours. Tell her how you feel. Asking isn't a crime, but throwing a pity party is. Are you really asking for help? Talk to a face, not to an avatar.

Exs aren't worth your time. They're an ex for a reason. I learned that the hard way, though.

I know how you feel about your Dad. I lost my Mom to small cells cancer, you have to make the best of the time you have with him.

The bad things will make you a stronger person. Things do happen for a reason, and good does come after the bad. Stay strong.
-Sunset

Aww poor man-boy!(thats my title for teenage boys, they aren't yet a man but they aren't a child anymore) My granpa has leukemia plus tumors literally all over the inside of his body and the part that hits me the most is that I may not get the chance to get close to him before he goes. I hate myself for not making the effort the last times i saw him know we know for sure that unless these tumors disapear, he wont make it. I'm sorry your father has cancer. It is such a terrible disease. But make the most of it and love him like you already do. As for your ex, she ain't worth spending thinking space over. She cheated! Cheaters are Losers! You are way better than that! Keep your chin up,shoulders relaxed and confide in someone. This sadness will only build up and get worse if you don't vent. Remember that people love you and would be better for them and you if you are happy.

i'd suggest talkin' to someone about it, lyke someone u can count on and trust. and you'll just have to learn to get over your ex. trust me, life will be hard for u if u don't learn to get over and ex.

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Originally posted by nikky2rock:
First of all why pine for a girl like that?
I am sorry about your dad . Is there anything definite about him ?
You can IM me at any time if it helps .
Hold on . It can only get better .
Keep us posted.

1st off about my dad hes doing ok so far hes been undergoing chemotherapy, and well about why i pine for a girl like that, I cant really explain it it just feels like a huge chunk of me was ripped out and no my body feels out of balance. i feel like i lost a part of myself. and well she just affected my life so much and I truly loved her.

First of all why pine for a girl like that?
I am sorry about your dad . Is there anything definite about him ?
You can IM me at any time if it helps .
Hold on . It can only get better .
Keep us posted.

Dont let those thoughts of suicide or the sadness overwhelm you. You are the master of you. (Ah, Confucius's teachings can never go wrong. ha- ok, maybe not) Ouch, tough crowd.

Anyway- think positively, even if it may seem impossible to do so.
There will be an end to the emotional torment eventually, just stand your ground.