Me and this guy "went out" (or what ever you wanna call it) almost two years ago...and we've "talked" on and off since then...I've had two other boyfriends (and I have my third now) and he's had three girlfriends and "talked" to several other girls. The week before I broke up with my boyfriend this January, he started dating my cousin and broke with her in like a week or so...but we had started getting close again because the week before my birthday last year, he had started calling me like everyday and we'd talk forever (we've always been like that talk for ever adn evver) and then about three weeks he stopped calling and started dating another girl (which I stilll don't know why). So it was then that I decided to move on...forever...or at least I thought so. I started dating this other guy in November and I broke it off this past January just because I didn't feel the same way as he did...and I also still had feelings for Josh (my first boyfriend). We started talking again...but just as friends...until he told me he loved me...and I finally got to tell him...but then some things happened and I started going to another church...and it seemed like he had moved on, so I started talking to Devin around the end of March or April...and he and I stopped talking beginning of July (we talked for so long because he couldn't have a girlfriend until he turned 16, Aug.8)...and he started talking to another girl A WEEK later, even though he said he loved me and always would and it would be hard for him to move on. I have a new bofriend now, Cody and we've been together for a week today. (Long time, huh?) But I told Josh last Sunday that I had to move on...pretty much forever mostly because mama won't let us date and it would be two more years before I could even think about us dating. Not to mention he graduates this year and he's going to Texas next summer to work with his uncle for a couple years...he said he was doing that as a way of waiting on me and he was gonna come back after I graduate... he's also talked about getting married just joking around before, but the other night when I broke it off (forever I think) he said he could not only see himself marrying me, but also he can feel it...but I told him it wasn't fair to him or me to keep saying we're gonna be together one day and have to hurt other people we have feelings for just because we never got to really see where it would go between us. But everyone I talk to (except my mom of course) thinks I should be with Josh...but I can't wait two years to be with him...what should I do?

It sounds to me like Josh is a bit clingy. Just do what you think is best. That's the only advice I have.

I think the only reason I was with the first guy after Josh was because Iw as trying to get my mind off him. But I really fell for Devin...a part of me loved him...I wasn't in love with him yet...but I think I could have really fallen for him. My boyfriend now I really like, too...it 's like I said before...my mom won't let me and Josh date...and it hurts. I cried for two hours the day before I offically ended it with Josh...it hurt so bad, but I knew (at least thought I knew) it had to be done. But now I'm starting to have doubts.

i would say josh to but really it seems u have alot of boyfriends or should i say had . and one of them is right for u and the others are not even right for u i don't even know why u went out with them. so email me at dramagurl206@yahoo.com if u have to ask about something else or say something.