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Picture of bRoKeNhEaRtEdFaErY
Registered: October 03, 2004
Posts: 4
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Ok, this is sort of a long story, but here goes nothing. I was over at this girl's house who I am now enemies with and I met this guy. We were over there for the simple fact that we were all drinking. The guy showed interest in me, and we ended up staying up all night and talking and making out and stuff..but nothing more than that! Well, a few days later, I hear that he doesn't remember anything, and that he doesn't like me like that. He's in one of my classes now and I can't get him off my mind. I know if I could just talk to him he would remember everything we talked about and everything, but I'm too embarrassed to even look his way for more than a second. I don't know what I should do..everyone says to just get over him but I can't. Someone help!


Heres 2 the crazy 1s,the misfits,the rebels.The round heads in the square holes.The 1s who see things differently.They're not fond of rules.You can quote them,disagree with them,glorify or villify them.But the only thing you can't do is ignore them.Because they change things.They push the human race
Picture of Celias
Registered: October 07, 2004
Posts: 6
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liverpoolrox is right, he probably doesn't remember at all. The best approach i would say, is to become friends with him. Push away that Feeling you have for him, just hide it for now, WIn over his friendship and then possibly sparks may flySmile
Picture of liverpoolrox1017
Registered: October 13, 2004
Posts: 10
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You mentioned something key...you were drinking, he was probably drunk and DOESN'T remember anything. He probably insn't the same guy that you were talking to.
Picture of WanderingSoul
Registered: August 31, 2004
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huh....... "but nothin' more than that"? goodness. ya shouldnt of even made out with him. if it was such a big deal shouldnt he remeber. screw him. the end. an' no more makin' out with guys ya just met.


-Some call me a wandering soul. Some call me a traveler without a purpose or destination. Some call me diffrent, resevered, maybe even dangerous. What I truly am is what you'll have to find out for yourself.
Picture of luvall
Registered: October 09, 2004
Posts: 1
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I myself am going through something like yours. Since you told us your story ill tell you mine. one day in team sports the lights had went out and me and this boy wanted to see what was behind the stage so i went in first then him ( i know stupid move but yeah i wasn't thinking) so when we got to like the back of the stage he kissed me and it got hot from then on out. we talked over the weekend about everything he even called me at my party to tell me he was thinking about mein the dark with no clothes on.on monday when we got back to school he kinda ignored me but he still talked to me but not like that and on tuesday he forgot about me. I called him on thrusday because i wanted to know what had happen and i got things straight between us. So i am telling you to go to him and let him know how you feel and if he turns you away then find someone cutier, nicer and everything eles better than him.

luvall
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Registered: September 02, 2003
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Most people are telling you to get him drunck again, but I would have to say that that isn't a good idea. If you are really into this guy, don't you want to know what he is like when his not drunck. Yeah you'll both talked and fooled around, but if he only likes you when he's drunck, maybe be he isn't all you think he is. I would just go over there and talk to him. The worse thing he can do is tell you that he doesn't remember anything and that he doesn't want to talk to you. If he says that then just move on becaue there is nothing that you can do after that. There are plenty of great guys out there. Don't get so caught up with one guy.


Kindness is a voice that the deaf can hear. -Blessings
Picture of YouthVoice
Registered: January 16, 2003
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quote:
Just get him drunk again


hmmmm...there is some thruth to that. It kind of reminds me about my psycology class and us learning about state dependent memory. You know, your memory is dependent on the physical state you learned it. So if was drunk, he'll probably remember you and what happened. On the other hand, if he is just playing dumb and simply wants nothing to do with you then I suggest you listen to gemins advice:
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My solution: slip antifreeze into his soup... and hell, why not yours too?


well...maybe not the second part...well, who knows.


"In a time of universal deceit - telling the truth is a revolutionary act." - George Orwell
Picture of geminiangel521
Registered: August 17, 2001
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Anything involving antifreeze and stark humiliation makes gemini pleased.


"We know how cruel the truth often is, and we wonder whether delusion is not more consoling"
Picture of Kharybdis
Registered: April 15, 2003
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Thanks. Here are a few other ones, if anyone's interested:



But back to the topic... I don't think we're examining all the options here. What about photographing the happy couple drinking antifreeze laced vodka? Or vodka laced soup? Or a camera full of antifreeze? The magical world of antifreeze, vodka, and photography is full of possibilities.


Those who profess to favor freedom and yet depreciate agitation are men who want crops without plowing up the ground, they want rain without thunder and lightning. They want the ocean without the roar of its many waters. Frederick Douglass
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Registered: August 17, 2001
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Yes, you do.

My solution: slip antifreeze into his soup... and hell, why not yours too?


"We know how cruel the truth often is, and we wonder whether delusion is not more consoling"
Picture of Aguagon
Registered: March 08, 2004
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Yeah, and this time, bring a camera. Awesome avatar, by the way, Kharybdis.


And then, as the books were told, Fina replied: "A can of worms, my dear friend? What has this to do with reason?"
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Registered: April 15, 2003
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Just get him drunk again; problem solved.


Those who profess to favor freedom and yet depreciate agitation are men who want crops without plowing up the ground, they want rain without thunder and lightning. They want the ocean without the roar of its many waters. Frederick Douglass
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