ok, i really need some help here. towards the end of my 8th grade year (last skol year) one of my really good guy friends asked me out. i said yes bcuz well i've liked him since the begining of the year. so neway, over the summer i haven't seen or talked to him at all. that's not to big a deal since he's been at his grandma's all summer and there's no computer or phone out there. but i'm sorta scared bcuz we ahven't talked in so long and in the fall we're starting high skol at different skols. this may not seem like such a huge deal but to put it simply (on y it is to me) we have a lot of histroy. throught all of middle skol we were there for each other through alot of drama including divorce, drugs, shootings and so on- and we both really understand what's going on in the others head. so i'm really freaked out that durring high skol we'll lose contact and not be able to amke a friendship or realtionship work. plus, it makes it hard since summer vacay started about a week after we started going out. if you underdstand what i mean by all this babbling, PLEASE! write sumthing bck to help me!

yeah i know how u feel.. its not the end of the world if u dont see him .. just get in contact w/ him somehow .. i know at some point i thought i didnt deserve to live but hun there will be tuns of guys trust me

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Just look at it this way, if it's meant to be it will happen.

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I totally agree with that. Girl do what you can and if it doesn't work out your life is not over. You're only a 9th grader which means you have a whole life ahead of ya.

i now what you mean. i went out with a good friend and we never saw each other over the summer. we go to different schools now and we just decided things were not working out so we decided just to be friends.

I think that u should uhhhh like try and get in contact with his parents or somebody who knows his whereabouts and when and where u can get in contact with him....don't lose faith that easily because if u do you're gonna stop caring and thats the least u wanna do.... its also good to find out his address so u can write him letters or poerty because from what u have told me and how tight u are u both should be thinking the same thing iiight???/lol
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write each other

if you guys have so much history, and you do know whats going on in each other's heads and all..then you guys shouldnt drift too much. i have two friends that i keep in contact with that i've known for a long long time. i still email this guy i've known since kindergarden. (he's across my state) and i write letters to my other friend. its fun, and we stay in contact. highschool is awesome. and if your the same girl you were at the beginning of summer, then just pray for him to be the same guy you've always known. if so, then you guys will be fine!

First off honey...calm down.
I had a boyfriend in 8th grade that i had for a year and a half. We broke up...sadly but we did. But now we are the best of friends. yeah we fight alot but i woudlnt trade him for the world...i think about him every day and hes my first real love. But this boy is away right? Well more than likely highschool will change things but you will always be close. I dont know him and i dont know you and i wish you the best of luck but sweety all you can do is look for the best and hope God will put all your matters in a good place! Goodluck w/ highschool and keep your chin up!

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well when he moves back to his own house or wherever he's staying that has a phone call him up and just start talking casually and once the awkwardness fades and you are talking like old friends ask him about your current 'status' so to speak. If he still wants to continue a relationship then yay for you i guess but if not then just accept it, its prolly for the better at this point anyway, and try and continue just as friends. I'm sure the new school year, especially being your 1st year in highschool, will bring some new faces and interests to your attention....you wouldn't wanna be tied down to someone you never see when you could be flirting with all the seniors now would you? lol

It's all cool and everything will be okay. Do you know his grandma's address or the address of where he is staying? If you don't, do you know how to contact him. If you do, then just write him a letter and mail it to him or if you know someone at the high school then send a message to him. Just look at it this way, if it's meant to be it will happen. Hope I helped.