Okay...here's the deal, I'm in need of some serious help. I've been with the same guy for 2 years. Well, I developed a small crush on his best friend. Who was one of my friends, also. We had such a good friendship. He'd help me with everything! He always made me feel good. Well, last week, he kissed me. And now he's acting like a total moron. We got in a huge fight and he told me I was "nothing" and "worthless to him." I don't know what to do...I lost a good friend. Someone I used to trust and talk about my relationship problems with. And I really freaked out on him. What should I do?

why did i kiss him? yeah, i do have a boyfriend and I love him very much, but I'm so afraid of being in love that sometimes i react out of fear and the ways i react aren't always good ones...you'd know if you had a fear such as this...you just...do things. I can't even explain it, all i know is I lost a good friend and now I am hurt...it's just another lesson learned

well you have a boyfriend already and so why did you kiss him??

Did you try talking to him? Did you try to explain to him that you have a bf, but still wanna be really good friends with him. Try what you think first before asking random people online what to do...

im glad things worked out for you! it was right of you to tell your boyfriend what happened, that must've taken alot of strength, so it deserves respect. keep it up, work on those grades and your career while you have teh chance. and if things are right, you'll be out of this break before you know it.

Well, everything with my boyfriend and I are doing good...I'm taking a break for a little while so we can both clear out our heads and think about things that need to be done...such as schoolwork, he's taking some challenging courses and I'm not doing so well. We are also taking a break to start doing new things that we're interested in. for instance, I'm trying to get my singing career off the ground and he's concentrating on getting a new job in his major and possibly furthering his education. As for his best friend...thanks so much for the advice guys! I think I'm going to stay away for a bit until all this anger it out of both him and I, then I'll call and try to talk things out, or go up there and talk face-to-face. my boyfriend knows what happened, I had to tell him. But your advice really helped me think about what I should do thanks so much!

Thanks.

The title of this board made me believ I should tell you to buy a cup, a helmet, and protective chest gear.

I have to tell you, in a situation where you are with someone already, especially for a period of 2 years, you should have known something like that could happen... I mean, if the best friend of your bf or whoever has been good to you, helped you and everything, there's bound to be feelings between both of you... guys tend to be like that. Its like, when tehy get close to someone even if she is thebgf of his bestfriend, he will have tender feelings for you... And anyway, his reaction is just normal... I mean you are the gf of his bestfriend or whatever you are but he knows you have been going steady for 2 years so like, what he is doing is just normal and he is just embarrassed by it all that he is acting like a moron. And also, if you got the feeling that he was being close to you after he helped you out, you should have known enough to ask him or tell him or try to find out if this guy have feelings for you or whatsoever so that you will not get into trouble...Sometimes, if there's 3 in a crowd, teher will be tension....
What you should do: Since all 3 of you are good friends, first, tell your bf, ask for his help in getting your friendship back with your other friend. Next, try to just talk to your bf's bestfriend and tell him that he shouldnt act like that. If the 3 of you are good friends, very good friends, im sure all will turn out fine.

huh (lil' too mean to say ha)......... good luck.

naturally after kissing your boyfriends best friend, it's going to be awkward, possibly start an arguement as it did for you. it was probably triggered by the fact that both of you realized it was wrong. does your boyfriend know about the kiss? you have two choices, tell him or dont. chances are that his best friend won't tell to preserve their friendship. if you don't tell your boyfriend, just try and preserve YOUR OWN relationship, get closer to him, spend more time with him. it might just make you strong enough to prevent another kiss like that happening again, no matter who it's with.