Over the years I'vc always had problems with making friends and keeping. It seems like when I make a friend everything is good then it slowly goes to where they don't call or seems like when I offer to do something they make up an excuse not to. In worse cases, people have lied and I caught them on it then they make up another one but I just let it go. I have a good friend now that I don't want to loose or him get sick of me being around. Like I said my track record with friends hasn't been the smoothest. I just feel like when I call barely once a week, i'm bothering him.....PLEASE I need suggestions of any kind...thanx

i think wat you should do is just think about everything you have done wrong with your other friends and not make the same mistake as you did with the others. and stop worrying if your track record was that bad he wouldnt have become your frined in the first place.

Recently i realized that i am being replaced by another girl who is funny 24/7, seriously, if you don't make jokes every minute, she considers you boring... sorry, im kinda getting in to my problems.... maybe ur problem is that they are different than you... if they think you're boring then ya, they will rather stay at home than be with you (not saying u r boring)

I have the same problem as you. In my case it seems that at times I am more mature than them I don't like doing the stupid stuff they do. So maybe it is that. Give me some more details about it.

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I've had friends like yours...but maybe you should do a self-check (not saying there IS something wrog with you I don't even know you) and even ask your friends to tell you one thing they think you should change about yourself

But, fi it is something to do with like your clothing or something, then dont change, because they will just keeping on changing you until you dont remember how you dressed before.

I had a friend tried to do that, and she was like "so fashionable" as if! I'm not the most fashionable, but I wear what I feel comfortable in. so dont let that happen to you!

I've had friends like yours...but maybe you should do a self-check (not saying there IS something wrog with you I don't even know you) and even ask your friends to tell you one thing they think you should change about yourself...and don't let it bother you when they do tell you....just do you're best to work on it a little at time. You won't see a change overnite...but it will come. I even have some of m friends tell me when I'm getting obnoxious...so if any of that helps...