My friends lives are messed up and i can help them but i don't know how and people talk about me and my boyfriend why can't people just let live god!!!!!!!!Then i am going to falll back in love with my ex and i don't want to because i am madly in love with the guy i'm with now!!!!!AHHHH HELP ME PLEASE!!!!

Odds are if you can fall into love with one boy when your in love with another within weeks to a few months it not true love...be careful who you let handle your heart. The world is crazy...true just wait 5 years it's a whole new game...(depends on you now if it's good or bad) So don't sweat the small stuff and take each day a step at a time.

~Katz

Gossip will always be around....just ignore it, if you really like the guy your with, you won't be torn apart by thw words of others. And falling in love is something you can't help, if you love this guy you love him, if you love your ex you love him, it's something you can't help.

hey screamer,
listen,all of us have problems.the difference is how u deal with it.i kinda face the same problems u do.i mean i used to .here in india people arrnt exactly open minded but they sure dont go t school on elephants!the thing is,in my college,the entire crowd is conservative and any one different is well termed weird or a ***** or like the way i was termed, a ****.its bad when youre outnumbered but then again people say such kinda stuff without thinking or even knowing you so dont bother bout what people say bout u and ur guy behind your back..its not worth ur time.and hey remember,if your madly in love with the guy your dating rite now,it shouldnt leave any space in your head to fill thoughts about your ex.think it out
peace out

Lol, xanga.

How many advice threads do you have? You know, if you are really making up this terrible life of yours and just want attention, you can go to xanga.com, make a fake xanga, and people will think you're a suicidal freak, and therefore, try to help you out.

Like Ikki said, not everyone has bad intention or is out to get you. Try some meditation of relaxation to just chill out a bit.

I wasn't trying to be mean. I was just stating things. if you're like this, thinking everyone is out to get you, you should probably seek help AWAY from your friends, as in professional help.

i'm ok now just try not to be mean to me IKKI14Reed!!!

ok why does everyone on this website mean to me and call me a groupie its not that helpful to an suicidel freak!!!!

Silo, many teenagers have similar problems. The differance is, most teenagers don't post multiple threads on their related problems.

I'm all for helping people, but do you really need a new thread? This is similar another one I was reading by you.

But don't worry about this friends stuff. it happens alot and people get through it. Try not to overanalyze. Don't worry about who you're going to fall in "love" with. And if loved the guy you're with now you shouldn't worry about falling back in "love" with you're ex.

1. Take a deep breath.
2. Tell your friends to take deep breath.
3. If you have not been REALLY upset (not melodramatically upset) for 2+ weeks straight, do not worry about it.
4. You are going through teen angst.
5. It will only get worse if you let it.
6. But it WILL get better.
7. Eventually.