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Picture of CelticNewAger
Registered: December 11, 2003
Posts: 9501
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My boyfriend gets teased. A lot.

At first it was something I could handle; hey, idiots tease others, especially in Retarded Era, I mean adolesence. I understand that. My boyfriend wouldn't do anything, but hey, the teasing wasn't very serious so I understood.

Until yesterday, it did cross the line. Physically did.

The hateful wrath that had vanished from me for some months re-appeared with such a strong force, I held myself back from commiting murder and settled with yelling "Leave him *bleep!!!!*".

To say I'm sick of the random idiots teasing my boyfriend is an understatement. I am beyond pissed off and found myself fantasizing about taking a rope to school, strangling the one who teases the most, and saying "Ok, you WILL not do anything to him again until your grave rots and your soul is scorching in the pits of Hell, or else I will kill you right here, which I can do considering no one cares in this school for what happens AND I don't care at all for human life." In reality, his Hulk-resembling girlfriend will likely pull my hair scalp off as I do this, but I can tolerate most pain by creating in that second some sort of sexual desire for it. I'm used to problems at school, and since I'm a 4.00 student in every way possible, and I can refute nearly everything that can be said to me very well, there is no chance of myself getting suspended.

I find the teasing so damn unfair it hurts. I'd understand if my boyfriend was a proffessional a-hole, but in truth he minds no one's business and is pretty damn peaceful.

I'm also angry (a sad anger though) that my boyfriend doesn't defend himself. Not that he can't; physically he could murder the guy with his hands. Although I admire his patience, I also believe that if someone physically hurts you, you have every right in the world to torture him as well. Especially when said person has made your life a living hell for months now.

Abi says he can't defend himself because of the fact that his aunt owns the school. Which I can refute simply. If she cared for *beep* that happened in that school, there wouldn't be girls offering sexual services and giving blow jobs in classrooms, there wouldn't be the many fights, there would actually be more class and less free time, there wouldn't be a general extreme lack of discipline that there is at the school. What's better? When kids at my school are sent to the principal, the principal only threatens you, but you never actually even get suspended for a day. Nothing happens. That is why to say he can't defend himself because of his aunt (whom he isn't even that close to) is at the very least, wrong.

Also, my boyfriend doesn't break the rules. He doesn't swear, curse, fight, he won't steal or do anything of the sort. Therefore, they can't complain much if he punches in the face of someone, especially since he has a good reason for it. And if someone actually dares to try to kick him off the school, I will storm into the office and tell the principal everything I have seen happen in that school, and tell her why the *bleep* hasn't she done jack *bleep* to all those *bleep* teenagers if the school is "so *bleep* good". That sort of thing I have done before in all my other schools, but this time I can argue on the school's discipline even better, because there is no sense of discipline at my current school.

I've considered everything from poisoning (which I can't do because it will show up on the autopsy), to shooting him (too loud, too many witnesses, finger prints in gun, etc), to strangling (leaves marks at his neck and I think it'd be pretty obvious I did it if I ran around with a rope/belt/etc in my hands), to a hit and run (too many witnesses, plus I don't have my license yet), etc. Don't freak out people, when I'm angry I fantasize on murder, it's normal. But frankly, there is no other way to stop him, because no one will do anything to the bully (as in, no suspension and the teachers don't care much either), he only has a hollow space in his skull (which is why I can't try to have a mature conversation with him), etc.

I think my best bet is the following: after he has done anything to my boyfriend, I will personally go up to him, and say somethingalong the lines of: "Ok, I'd like to thank you for making my boyfriend realize he must defend himself, I'd also like to thank you for making me have the heart (or lack of it) that I had before. That being said, I would like to give you a token of my appreciation" and WAAAAAMMM, I'll b-slap him. Take in mind, last time I did this I was barely as angry nor hated the guy as much, and I make his nose bleed.

Bleh, that would cause problems also. In all honesty, I'm afraid of his girlfriend (really, that girl resembles King Kong and has the attitude of a PMSing serial killer), and if the guy hits me back, Abi will likely do so, and that would be one hell of an interesting fight between Abi, A-hole, Daisy (the girlfriend), and me. But hey, what they (well, she) has physically, Abi and I have in wit. I could probably scream "Look! Daddy Yankee!" and point at the other direction and the two would be stupid enough to look there so we (as in, hubby and I) could anihilate the both of them.

I'm just sick of unfair bullying and the love of my life having to suffer from it so (because, ironically, no one does anything to me). He's trying to be less depressive now and the bullying will definetly not help.

Egh, again, I'm asking, long story short, for advice that could be effective and legal at the same time. Anything would be appreciated


"Regardless, I have always, and will always, succeed."
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Registered: November 27, 2005
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My Advice, Go see a counciler. Have a talk with your boyfriend. Definantly don't get revenge, It'll make them bully them more. And don't risk your school career because of some stupid bullies.


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Registered: November 21, 2005
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Yeah, I know how you feel CelticNewAger- totally. And I think you should go with something that somebody else said- laxative all the way!! Something that will cause... uncomfortableness.. to say the least, but won't hurt them. Even though you really really really want to. There are other ways to get back at a person besides physical harm. (i.e. blackmail, rep torture, etc.) lol hope i helped :-D. But im really guessing not cuz those are things ive tried...
P.S. they worked better than expected.


In Georgia where children work day and night in the cotton mills they have just passed a bill to protect song birds. What about the little children from whom all song is gone? - Mary H. Jones
Picture of Euterpe
Registered: September 29, 2004
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Puerto Rico actually has similar strict bullying laws like the US does. You should look them up.


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Picture of risika2004
Registered: April 03, 2004
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Stop using multiple explanation points.


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Picture of BeyondTheGrave
Registered: September 20, 2005
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The laxatives are a great idea!!!!!!


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Registered: February 22, 2004
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or you can beat them in a dark alley and never even let them see your face or hear your voice.


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Picture of Greenleaf771
Registered: March 30, 2005
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Can't you plot something secretive and less violent? Offer to help them study for a test and gove all the wrong answers, etc. I don't know what they're like, but just a suggestion. Sometimes stealth is the best weapon.

Haha, EG, maybe Celtic should try that.


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Registered: January 15, 2003
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You should act all nice and give them sodas you secretly filled with really strong laxatives. They'll probably crap their pants and have painful intestinal cramps for days.
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