about 3 years ago i found out that my dad used to molest his brother and sister when they were kids, as he is older than them. now i cant stand him toutching or even hugging me, and i know hes a better person now but all i can think when he makes a certain face or even brushes my arm is Peodophile!. i know hes ym dad and i gotta live with him every 2 weekends, and the rest of my family, minus my brother and my mum, are oblivious to this. even his brother and sister have forgiven him. how can i get over this? i cant help it but i feel almost sick in is presence. i know that sounds awful, so what should i do...and talking about it isnt an option

help
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well I don't know what to say. This is usually the kind of stuff that therapists will help you with if it bothers you that much.

it was my mum who told me, and my dad doesnt know i know
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why don't you talk to your mom about this.

maybe he changed and feels extremely guilty about it.

sometimes people do things and then regret them everyday the rest of their lives... does this mean they should be forgiven?

i don't know. i'm not a professional. in all honesty though, it would be best to talk to your mom. if your dad told you about it, then he most likely told her, so she probably already knows. If not, you should tell her anyways because it's something that's making your life a lot harder apparently.