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Unfortunately I'm not naturally an asshole, and when I try and turn the cocky jerk inside me on it usually starts ranting about the state of American culture and how much Pepsi and everything it represents sucks. This generally isn't seen as attractive.

I have a similar problem and I can also at times go on endlessly on very subjects mainly history and The Marines and the military in general and various way I believe we can fix our nation I swear if I was a senator I could break the filibuster record on my first day but chicks don't find the intelligence bit very attractive even though I can kick ass when circumstances call for it.

Maybe girls don't like guys who talk as much as they do?

I feel your pain. I have a pretty good understanding of how things work too, but I can't seem to use it to my advantage.

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Originally posted by Aguagon:
I'd like to point out that clpo's generalization is every bit as accurate as listenup's. Probably much more so.

Girls tend to be far more fickle because they try and fool themselves as to why they're attracted to guys.

Attraction is caused by sexual appeal and perception of social superiority. This is why girls like assholes. Assholes tend to be confident and come off more as socially dominating. They can also insult girls, attacking self esteem, and make them feel "unworthy" of being with Asshole X. This of course leads to them working extremely hard to keep a shitty relationship together.

In contrast guys tend to look for a sexually attractive girl. Intelligence is a plus but in many guys cases not important. I consider myself one of the more personality centered guys, although if a girls is ugly or overweight, it's a major turn off.

Don't kid yourselves, we're all pretty shallow when it comes to that.

But this explains why you often see great girls working really hard to stay in shitty relationships with peice of shit guys. You very rarely see the reverse, and if you do it's a really desperate/pathetic guy and the same idea applies to them.

Unfortunately I'm not naturally an asshole, and when I try and turn the cocky jerk inside me on it usually starts ranting about the state of American culture and how much Pepsi and everything it represents sucks. This generally isn't seen as attractive.

I'd like to point out that clpo's generalization is every bit as accurate as listenup's. Probably much more so.

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Originally posted by clpo13:
Oh wait, I just made a generalization. Oops.

No no bad clpo! Hee hee. And not all girls are "so fickle", I'm not.

So, yeah, not all teenage guys suck but some of them do, just like some teenage girls suck. I don't think boys would be considered so "bad" if girls didn't encourage it.

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Guys cannot commit to just one girl.

Says you. Everyone knows it's the girls who can't commit to one guy. It's always, "Well Bob's smart, but Jeff is so hot. I'm gonna dump Bob because he's not hot and have wild and crazy sex with Jeff..." and so on. Girls are so fickle.

Oh wait, I just made a generalization. Oops.

Just go to random places and hope to find a nice potential mate (or "PM").

Since I obviously suck at relationships, I wouldn't know. I'd say the best way to find a decent chick would be just to go to say, like a park or something. Hell, I don't know.

Did you try Target yet?

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Originally posted by risika2004:
Dating is so over-done.

Where do you find attractive intelligent (and sane) girls who are of the same mindset? Wal-Mart doesn't seem to stock them.

Dating is so over-done.

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Originally posted by Hydrok:
your what 16? Give it another 4 or 5 years and you'll have to scrape them off you.

This is a lie. They will still hate you. Don't be fooled like I was.

Now I'm hoping on the biological clock factor to increase my dating. Whoo end of college when everyone starts to worry about the future.

your what 16? Give it another 4 or 5 years and you'll have to scrape them off you.

I can if I had the opportunity but for some reason, I a mildly handsome guy, who dresses normally, writes poetry, plays several sports, has a great sense of humour, loves to eat and to try to cook, gets good marks in school and has an okay life ahead of him is not very attractive to the femlae half of the populace. some one tell me what the hell's up with that?

Guys is a pretty loose and all encompassing generalization to be making about people you do not know.

Guys cannot commit to just one girl.

Yes they are guys who are not obbsssed with sex and we're not exactly are rare species! of course if your chest is popping out of your tiny top bet your self were gonna look but thats because we're guys and with a lot of fashion today it's a buffet for the eyes it's not really our fault we just have much hormones and little self control. really be patient we do try

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Originally posted by listenup:
... I have learned one thing God counts every tear a girl crys so make sure none of them are from you..................

uh, yeah but He counts guys' tears too. regardless of your experiences with the male race...there are guys out there that are not sex-hungry pigs.

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Originally posted by bluedemocrat:
If you are an educator, why is you NN "think_negative"?

Haha...that is a great question

If you are an educator, why is you NN "think_negative"?