
Registered: December 23, 2002
Posts: 92
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I've never ever been afraid of confrontation...I've always been strong when it came to something that I believed in or something that hurt me....I wrote a topic in here a few weeks ago about something that happened between my boyfriends best friend and I...I kissed him and yadda yadda yadda...well Bill (my boyfriends friend) was one of my best friends...I could tell him anything...and now he wants nothing to do with me and it hurts...it really really hurts. Something so small as a kiss ruined my friendship. And I'm so scared to talk to him about it. What should I do? Should I talk to him? Should I call him and try to talk to him? I need help!
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Registered: September 22, 2004
Posts: 889
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Just try and talk to him. If that doesn't work, time heals all.
"Take risks and never regret them."
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Registered: November 04, 2004
Posts: 6
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man, if he cant take a little kiss, he aint a good friend. I dont know how long u 2 have known eachother for, but he needs to suck it up like a man and needs 2 understand that u like his friend.gurl, im always here 4 ya!!! 
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Registered: July 23, 2004
Posts: 138
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Well if he's a nice guy he's probably avoiding you because you kissed him, and he's best friend's with your boyfriend.
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Registered: June 22, 2004
Posts: 2343
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Well, if he is going to throw a perfectly good friendship down the drain just because of one small kiss what does it say about him and is it really worth talking to him about if he acting this way? Consider how he feels when this happened. I mean you are going out with his best friend and maybe he is afraid that one small kiss can lead to something bigger and he doesn't want to hurt his best friend and you. My advice is this: Follow your heart and pray. Usually you will find the answer through that but if not talk to one of your best girl friends about it and if you still don't get a clear answer than just let him come to you when and if he is ever ready to talk about it.
I have not yet reached my goal, and I am not perfect. But Christ has taken hold of me. So I keep on running and struggling to take hold of the prize. My friends, I don't feel that I have already arrived. But I forget what is behind, and I struggle for wha
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