another one of my friends... today he was in a car crash and his grandma died instantly and they aren't sure if hes gonna make it. hes in the hospital. why does this keep happening? when did my life suddenly become a movie? what was the last thing he saw or heard or was thinking of? what was the last thing he did? did he scream? does he even know anything happened???

i think that it's stupid who wants to be sad i'd rather party
but thats just one persons opion

I've heard about that Shade. They celebrate the persons life rather than concentrate on their death.

In some traditions, forgive me for their names escape me, they would have first a funeral, sad and mournful, letting the person pass on, and then they would have a celebration or a feast, and set out a place for the dead.

i dont get why it is that everything at a funeral has to be sad it should be a celebration of that persons lif and all the things and good that they did in thier life

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and guys i laughed at my dads funaral loudly and i think everyone was to shocked to look because everyone in my extended family was laughing at a comment that my uncle made

I laughed loudly at my friend's funeral when everyone was still filing in, viewing the body and giving the condolences (mainly cause I had to keep sane SOMEHOW).

I had to stop myself from laughing aloud during the eulogy. Let's just say, if you talk to a person in your head, don't say something stupidly funny when you're coming out of shock.

hey ithinktwice
i'm glad your freind is doing better

and guys i laughed at my dads funaral loudly and i think everyone was to shocked to look because everyone in my extended family was laughing at a comment that my uncle made

I once laughed at a funeral as well. I think that the reality of that person passing away hadn't hit me yet. I don't generally do well in funerals. Not that there is such a thing as doing well in funerals...

I laughed at a funeral. Loudly. When everyone else was quiet, when the priest was giving his speach. And I laughed for a long time. And people stared at me.

Yep.

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Now I'm not the only one who laughs at inappropriate moments.

I laughed during a funeral. Not visibly audial, but I still laughed.

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I always laugh at the wrong time during movies. Nomally it's at some dramatic scene and I am the only one laughing

I do that, too....

By the way, IThinkTwice, I'm glad your friend is doing better.

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Now I'm not the only one who laughs at inappropriate moments.

I always laugh at the wrong time during movies. Nomally it's at some dramatic scene and I am the only one laughing. Its rather embarrasing.

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Would it make you feel better if I said that I laughed, too?

Yes, thank you. Now I'm not the only one who laughs at inappropriate moments.

Would it make you feel better if I said that I laughed, too?

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Your name Aly?

I would think that that is what it is.

And I laughed at Clpos comment. I feel horrible for laughing at it in this thread...

Shade, you stalker!

Anyways, I'm sorry for your friend. The only thing to do is comfort him. Life sucks sometimes, worse for some than for others. But things always get better.

Your name Aly?

Who knows your name? I think you misread something.

yeah i visited him saturday he's doin ok now. o gosh. um... how did you know my name??? and its with one L.