lilsoftball, if you're boyfriends doesn't trust you, maybe he's not the right guy. If he's going to get mad over someone else you may be looking at, he might not be worth it. Almost everyone, even when they're in relationships, will find someone else attractive, it doesn't mean they'll ever act on it or that they'll ever let it affect the relationship. He apparently doesn't understand that. If he was a man he would.

ok my boyfriend just found out that i like another guy and he is pissed at me. he thinks that i am cheating on him but i'm not. i would never do that to him or myself because i love him way too much.the other guys i like isnt a guy he is more a boy. he is in the 7th grade and he is 12 and i am in the 8th grade and i am going to be 14 next month. so yeah. i dont know what to do. please help. (

My two cents:

sangryteen, this isn't a guy you should be going after. One, if he's yelling at you right after you're sitting here telling him that these things aren't true, and that you still like him, then his attraction toward you must not be very strong anymore, but more importantly, he shouldn't be yelling at you at all, and he sounds like someone you want to steer clear of.

Also consider that if he trusts someone only spewing negative things over someone who likes him and simply defends herself, then he's not too bright of an individual, and you should move on and find someone better. (I am assuming this is the situation, if you assault her verbally just as much, then you might wanna stop that.)

Again, the friend doesn't seem like a real friend. And second, if this guy you really like doesn't even trust you as much as he trusts the person who makes lies to make him like her....he's probably not right for you. Although he seems perfect in all aspects except for that, if there's no trust, there's no future. how'm i doin?

like i said he HATES me. iv tried talking to him. trust me i have i only want to make things better. And after i talked to him she found out that he was starting to like me again. but She quickly stoped that by telling him im only useing him to make me feel better. he yelled at me. i tried to reason with him, but he just yell at me more. he trusts her more and and she waves it my face at the fact that he likes her more. it makes me really depressed....... btw she knons we'er not friends she just not used to people hateing her, i really hate!

Wow. Really sounds like you're "friend" needs to get her values straight. I would first question myself if she's even worth the friendship. It sounds like she's giving you wayy more grief than you deserve. Second, i know it sounds cheesy, but try talking to the guy. Most of them like it when girls make the move. Explain to him that you made mistakes but you still really like him(not love!) Tell him that what you're friend says isn't true. I know it sounds awkward but it's better than sitting back just watching your friend giggle and laugh at his lame jokes.(ie:flirting with him) So first, i would definately question the so called friend, then, if you have the guts(i wouldn't!) talk to the guy, and tell him what's really true, without hurting your friend...so, was that good enough? first one's aren't always the best so tell me how i did!!!

ok bella i have a problem.....
this girl is hitting on my ex-bf and she knows i still love him. we broke up cuz i was "cheating" on him i wasnt just talking to a guy friend, she pretends to be my friend, she tells him that i hate him and that im polting his death, he hates me, we dated for over a year and we were really good friends, but she couldnt take it cuz i was happy, she did the last time i dated a guy, she knows i hate her but she try to get me to talk about it but i wont. i really want to kill her. i really, really do! Help me please....

Okay then, can anyone else help me?

And Bella, your profile says you're from Montana, and anyways, it would be better if you were Canadian, so I don't really get the part about how I am out of luck in that you say you are"from canada!!!"
But thanks for replying...I guess

er...that wasn't really what i had in mind, but okay. Sorry you're out of luck because
1. i have no clue what you're talking about
2. i'm from canada!!!

I just wanted to ask if anyone could give me advice on where you could get a penpal(snail mail)from a developing country. I was wondering if I should email an organization, such as World Vision, and ask them for help, but i think I might just annoy them. Has anyone tried this before?
BTW:the pen pal is needed for a contest (www.bp208.ca, but I think you have to be Canadian to enter)and I think having a penpal I could refer to would help me win . And plus, it would be a good learning experience
Thanks