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Picture of virgo14
Registered: June 28, 2005
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So heres the story.Theres this dude.We've been really close 4 years, up until a few months ago I had no beyond friend feelings for him but I do now.The problem is that hes a total playboy.I dont know one girl who wouldnt want him.Bit hes showin interest in bein more than friends with me.But he has a girlfriend.But I love him so much.I just dont know what 2 do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Confused


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Registered: July 14, 2005
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I think you should kill him. For the sake of being interesting.


I agree. Love is overrated. I enjoy gore much more.


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Picture of bushhater
Registered: October 10, 2005
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Follow the heart. Good Luck to you and him.


YOU SUCK!
Picture of yogore
Registered: February 02, 2004
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Don't ruin your friendship.


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Picture of northstar316
Registered: October 06, 2004
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I think you should kill him. For the sake of being interesting.

Ad a 14 year old guy is not a "playboy" it is a "prosti-tot," as we lifeguards call them in NJ.


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Picture of clpo13
Registered: November 05, 2004
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The first thing to do is figure out if you really love him or not. Is it his looks? His personality? If he were horribly disfigured in a car accident, would you feel the same way about him? Would you trust him with everything from your deepest secrets to your life?

The other thing that gets me is this: if he has a girlfriend, why does he want to be more than "just friends" with you? Or is that just your assumption by what he's said or done?

I would say the best thing to do is wait and see. You can be good friends without going deeper, but if you really want to, I'm sure some opportunity will arise.


The more you know, the less you don't know.
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