T reduce DEPPRESION just do this:Just 1 HUG per day SIGNIFICANTLY decreases Stress/Deppresion!!!!!!!!!
So.....TRY IT!

i know how you feel i was the same way i just got over it. i was abused by people and i didn't feel loved till i talked about it to a friend that didn't know me that well. all he did was listen it really helped me. i know how ruogh it is to not be excepted. if you need someone to talk to i will always listen...

Thanks for all your advice ikki14reed. It was very helpful

Yea, I know what a break is. But I don't think that is what we need. I mean we get along fine. It's just we argue sometimes about my depression. He thinks that everything is fine and my mom is just upset with me and him spending so much time together and me not hanging out with her or my sisters anymore. He thinks that this will all get better when school is out because I will get to do more and lately things have been better between me and my mom, I can talk to her about him and she is fine with it. Yeah I respect my dad for not completely going against what my mom says but I thank him for letting me see my boyfriend as much as possible.

You do seem a bit too serious, and in order to make a temporary break work, you have to temporarily cut off contact with a person.

It is good that your dad is agreeing with your mom just in the sense that at least you have stable rules.

Me and my boyfriend have talked about splitting up until I am 18, and we have taken a break for about a week, but that didn't work because we just wanted to be with each other and we knew that neither of us wanted to be with anything else... plus we were talking as much as we could and we were doing the same things as when we were together. And I have talked to my mom about it many of times and she says that it is because she thinks we were getting to serious. My dad doens't really have a problem with us dating but he just doens't want to go against what my mom has told me even thought they are split up.

Take a break from him and go back to him when you're eighteen.

Either that or take to your parents about why they won't let you see him, and talk to your boyfriend about why he's not willing to strike a compromise with your parents.

wow. this is just what i need. i have been really depressed lately because I have been in a relationship for about a year and a few months now and I am so in love. Well that's not what I am depressed about... but kinda. My mom doesn't like him and she will hardly ever let me see him. I am only 16 so I really have no choice as to listen to her. I sneek out to see him all the time and I skip school pretty often. My mom and dad are seperated and my dad understands me way better than my mom does so he lets me see him some. Not very often. And when I do, he wants to be there, so he always says that my boyfriend can come over or he will take us somewhere. But my boyfriend is 20 and never wants to do that. He always wants to be alone and just hang out and do stuff alone together to actually spend time together and not have to be all uptight around parents. But the problem is when we first started dating my mom really liked him and I got to see him 24/7. So now that I never get to see him it really sucks for the both of us and it is so depressing from being with him all the time to never getting to see him and barely getting to talk to him on the phone. Now since I am always so sad my boyfriend gets down too, and I feel so bad because I am not down because of him and he is down because of me. So I feel like we are going to fall apart. I am like counting down the days until I turn 18 so that we can be together and not have to worry about anyone keeping us from each other, but it's awhile until I am 18. And I feel like we are going to fall apart. My boyfriend keeps telling me that there is nothing wrong and that everything will be fine, and that I don't need to be sad. But I am just scared and can't make myself happy. This is why my boyfriend and I have been fighting so often, because I am down alot and bringing him down. But he never says that he is going to leave me, we just argue about why I am sad and not need to be... in his opinion. I need help.

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Dear Youth Voice. You are awesome. You help a lot of people. You are a good for youth person. Smile. Blessings and much love.

Umm...wow. That's way too nice of you to say. Thank you...

Dear Youth Voice. You are awesome. You help a lot of people. You are a good for youth person. . Blessings and much love.

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Hormones are begining to kick in and it is a lot to handle. I mean growing up is tough. I feel sad for no apparent reason to.

The feeling sad is part of growing up. MANY people have gone through it. For that, it really is just a matter of time. In a couple years, you'll (if it's just teen angst) feel A LOT better.

Hormones are begining to kick in and it is a lot to handle. I mean growing up is tough. I feel sad for no apparent reason to.

I'm shocked I missed this thread.

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before i finally found out that all u need is someone to talk to...

I think that is the biggest load of bull I have ever read. That's all I have to say...

How do I noisemail someone?

Thanks everyone

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sometimes i'm just sad, for no intelligible reason and it freaks people out. because i really don't know whats wrong with me, sometimes i just feel like crying. and nobody understand that emotions don't always have instigators.

I understand emotions don't always need instigators. Sometimes you just need to cry to cry.

Is there anyway to go back to a counselor (not necessarily the same one)? Try to find one you click with, one who understands. Sometimes it helps to get it all out, to talk to someone you don't see on a day to day basis.

sometimes i'm just sad, for no intelligible reason and it freaks people out. because i really don't know whats wrong with me, sometimes i just feel like crying. and nobody understand that emotions don't always have instigators. my friend suggested i was manic depressive, because he used to be and he knows how it is. but i don't want there to be something wrong with me. like a couple of years ago i started cutting myself. i told my friends and then my mom found at and i went to a counselor for a while. Eventually i just kind of let people think i stopped because they don't get it.

Honestly, babytink? You let it run its course and it will get better. You'll still care from time to time, but for the most part, you will get to a point where you realize that you really don't care anymore, and it's their loss.

i am 14 years old and I know i don't have enough experience but i allow people to get to me and that is the problem. How do get rid of this problem.

Babytink, I'm going to give you one of my favorites quotes. Think about it, and perhaps it will help.

"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleonor Roosevelt