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Picture of oOMentalPillsOo
Registered: November 29, 2004
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I can't forget my ex boyfriend and every time i say"I'm over him" it always comes back and its driving me isane and i can't cut because my dad will find out and the way i talk about him to my friends they always yell at me and say i'm being annoying. Help me before its too late. How did you get over someone you love or do you have suggestions?? Confused


In the city of blinding lights.
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Registered: November 30, 2004
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Then get out of it. No man is worth that much pain.


"I Dream away everyday, Try so hard to disregard The rhythm of t he rain that drops, And coincides with the beating of my heart"
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Registered: November 29, 2004
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me and him have a very odd relationship right now.......... Roll Eyes


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Registered: December 20, 2004
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I tried to go back to another ex of mine but that didn't work so then i tried to just let it be and now he has another girlfriend and it is all good, for now, and besides it is really fun to tease him about going out with a sixth grader, although i shouldn't be talking...


I'm confused... about life. and life hates me.
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Registered: December 19, 2004
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MentalPills, I had this exact same problem! I went out with this boy 5 different times...mostly because I have a problem with commitment, but I loved him so much. To this day I still call him and we'll have long overnight conversations...which isnt healthy for either of us...so when you've figured out to do help me too =) I just figured you'd wanna know your not the only one in that postion...Also Can anyone help me with my problem with my commitment...has anyone else ever had that problem?


This one time @ band camp....
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Registered: November 30, 2004
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Originally posted by oOMentalPillsOo:
yea maybe i'm happy for now......................Smile
That's great! Smile You can't start a thread seeking advice and get upset when people offer it to you. If you no longer need it then so be it. Let's let this die off then. The topic was that you couldn't forget him, now ya did so lets leave it at that and move on, no offense or anything.


"I Dream away everyday, Try so hard to disregard The rhythm of t he rain that drops, And coincides with the beating of my heart"
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Registered: November 29, 2004
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yea maybe i'm happy for now......................Smile


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haha.....................adam,me happy as hell!!!
Apparently you longer need the help so let's let this thread die and let more useful topics come up.


"I Dream away everyday, Try so hard to disregard The rhythm of t he rain that drops, And coincides with the beating of my heart"
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Registered: November 29, 2004
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haha.....................adam,me happy as hell!!!


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Registered: December 15, 2004
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Your boyfriend isn't worth crying over if you consider cutting yourself for him...it's not cool. You need to tell him to bug off and get on with your life because if you don't, YOU will be the hurt one, not him. Get out and leave while you can and don't get into trouble you don't need to be in.


Jibou D.
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Registered: December 11, 2003
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Moronic waste of oxygen. And bad combination of sperm and eggs.


"Regardless, I have always, and will always, succeed."
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Registered: November 29, 2004
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haha........screw you guys i'm going home........ADAM ME HAPPY.......BLOOD ORGY!!!!! DEMON PORCUPINE.....its south park ppl.



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javier once said that dancing is about who and what you want to be.......i find its a way of life....Smile


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Registered: December 11, 2003
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Why do I feel I'm too old mentally to be a teenager?


"Regardless, I have always, and will always, succeed."
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Registered: November 29, 2004
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yep and now i like someone else.................k.w. hehehehehe he doesn't know but then i think he doesn't even know i exist


haha


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Registered: December 11, 2004
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It's understand to miss him...just look forward to the new guy you'll meet someday...You nkow...kinda like upgrading your car...but your boy. (lol cheer up)

~Katz


~In my experience people who feel as if they aren't special have more to contribute. Feelings of frustration and doubt and the will to overcome these feelings make you stronger than you could possibility believe~
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Registered: November 29, 2004
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i am over him but i just miss the times with him.


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Registered: September 13, 2001
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be the bigger person- show him you don't need him in your life to complete you. Move on and make a new awesome life that doesn't involve him and that'll be punishment enough for him when he realizes what he's missing out on! ;o)


**Someday your prince will come. MINE just got lost and was too stubborn to ask for directions!**
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Registered: June 22, 2004
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Yogore is right. You are only thirteen. When you are that young, I don't honestly think you can truly love someone, have them love you back, know what love is, and still be sane. Why put those things in his locker? I mean, he probably has already gotten over you and by putting all that stuff in his locker, not only does it make you look bad to him and feel bad because it is taking you this long to get over a crush but he will probably think that you are a weirdo for not getting over him sooner.


I have not yet reached my goal, and I am not perfect. But Christ has taken hold of me. So I keep on running and struggling to take hold of the prize. My friends, I don't feel that I have already arrived. But I forget what is behind, and I struggle for wha
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Registered: February 02, 2004
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You didn't love him. It was a crush, and the sooner you realize that the sooner you will get over him.

Don't try and show him that you are getting over him. you shouldn't need to. it will only make you feel worse. I think you should do neither of your options. Just put all the stuff away and dpon't pay attention to it. If you put it all in his locker, that will make you feel badly when he doesn't care. And burning it will make you regret it later when you want to remember your teenage years.


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Registered: November 29, 2004
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i think that the only way for me to get over him is to cry about things because thats what i did last night and it helped and i have a plan.........since i do witchcraft i'm going to a farewell spell on Adam and i'm going to burn all the photos except for one but i really think i should burn all of them or i have another one..........i am going to put all the stuff he gave me into his locker and all the pictures ( Except for one picture that i REALLY CAN'T BURN) and see what he thinks and then i can show he that i am getting over him. But i don't think i acn FULLY get over him because he was the only guy i HAVE EVER SAID I LOVE YOU AND REALLY MEAN IT TOO!!!!! Wow so which one do you think i should do to get over him.........Fire or locker??? Please help me!! Roll Eyes


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