m a 17 yr old guy, recently started having sex with my girlfriend of three months
the problem is that i cant last long at all (like a minute tops) i know part of that is inexperience but weve done it at least seven or eight times now and i havent shown any signs of improvement
does anyone have solutions?
(were not able to use comdoms because shes allergic to latex...i know thats risky she is on the pill and she and I were virgins prior to sleeping together, so im not that worried)
Those who profess to favor freedom and yet depreciate agitation are men who want crops without plowing up the ground, they want rain without thunder and lightning. They want the ocean without the roar of its many waters. Frederick Douglass
My apologies, Ikki, I skipped over that on accident.
In a situation where a moral decision must be made, we should always choose truth, in the expansion and enrichment of knowledge, in ourselves and others, and at all levels of our being.
No teenager knows enough about life and the world we live in to actually claim that they have it all figured out and attempt to subvert other people to their way of life. You are not without fault so please do not condemn me for mine. Don't try to tell me that I'm wrong and i won't show you that you are.
You've just given yourself a reason not to do it.
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Those who profess to favor freedom and yet depreciate agitation are men who want crops without plowing up the ground, they want rain without thunder and lightning. They want the ocean without the roar of its many waters. Frederick Douglass
EarthGoddess, please refrain from posting innapropriate (and rude) material on the boards.
MoganFreeman, welcome to yn.
In a situation where a moral decision must be made, we should always choose truth, in the expansion and enrichment of knowledge, in ourselves and others, and at all levels of our being.
4. I am so sick and tired of people coming on YN and discussing their sex lives. (Although I doubt she would use these exact words.)
Exactly. There are soooooooo many places you can find help for your little problem, minuteman. Such as, Dr. Drew's website, for instance. A professional sex therapist (OMFG WHAT A CONCEPT). That being said, I can not grasp your logic as to why you would think a teen forum full of kids, just as, if not more inexperienced, would be the best place to ask such a stupid question.
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Testing123: I was unaware they made latex-free condoms, I'll look into that immediately, thank you.
2glz1boy: Interesting statistics...I'm almost perfectly sure she's one of the 28% who do take it correctly, she's a smart girl and has been taking it for two years now due to medical reasons, but it is best to err on the side of caution. As for my girlfriend getting "shafted"...let's just say I make sure shes taken care of before i do anything for myself, and leave it at that.
1. I disagree with your descision to not use a condom
perfectly legitimate point, you just should have been a tad more eloquent when attempting to express it
2. i disagree with your descision to have premartial sex
In which case, i don't need you preaching to me. No teenager knows enough about life and the world we live in to actually claim that they have it all figured out and attempt to subvert other people to their way of life. You are not without fault so please do not condemn me for mine. Don't try to tell me that I'm wrong and i won't show you that you are.
3. I actually believe this is a viable solution to your problem
cheers
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The pill is not 100% effective. There are a lot of other contraceptive options, and a lot of diferent ways to find out about the different options. The internet is one of those places to seek information, as are your (or her) doctor. The best person to ask would be her gynocologist or planned parenthood (wherever she got the birth control from).
As for what your original question was (before the discussion quickly derailed into a condemnation of your lack of condom usage)...I'm not at all the one to ask.
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It may get better and it may not as far as it only lasting a minute.....all i can suggest is just use a lot of fore play because your girlfriend is getting shafted in more than one way if you know what i mean.
Oh and i would use a condom (the ones without latex), how happy you going to be if you girl misses a pill and your on your way to fatherhood???
here are some stats from planned parenthood....
quote:
They may not know that many women who say they are taking the pill don't always take it consistently or correctly. Here are the facts:
Only 28 percent of women always take the pill correctly.
Only 42 percent take the pill every day.
At least 16 percent have pills left at the end of the month.
About 25 percent stop using the pill before a year has passed and do not use another method.
About 33 percent of teen women missed a pill in a three-month period.
About 17 percent do not take the pills in the right order.
These are the typical reasons that women become pregnant while using the pill.
(were not able to use comdoms because shes allergic to latex...
You shouldn't be having sex because your an idiot. There are condoms without latex. They sell them anywhere you would buy a latex condom. Use a friggen condom.
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