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Picture of tenischica101
Registered: July 28, 2004
Posts: 13
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My friends don't invite me out with them, i try to make plans with them and there like i don't know, i think i might be busy, and then they talk about there plans with each other in front of me and dont bother to invite me anywhere with them. I don't know what to do, i tried talking to them but they think i shouln'dt let it bother me. Help!
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Registered: May 03, 2003
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Agreed.


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Friends, it is official. We have found the wort newbie.


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Registered: April 04, 2005
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Picture of tenischica101
Registered: July 28, 2004
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Thanks guys, I tried talking to them, and they dont seem to understand why im so upset. My friend is like I thought you were my friend and I could talk to you about my plans. I tried overlooking this and just trying to move on, but when i was talking to my friend b4 homeroom this morning my other "friend" came up and the friend i had been talking to just completely ignored me and payed attention to her. I asked her why she did that after and she just said well she distracted me. I also tried making plans with her this weekend, and she's still always busy, except a an hour or so on saturday, but whats the point in that when u'd just get to the mall or whatever and she'd have to go?Gah i hate this! I don't know if it will ever work out.
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Registered: January 16, 2005
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if they are really your friends than try to work it out w/ them if they don't want to be friends than 4get bout them move on don't worry about hurting there feelings they allready hurt yours


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Registered: March 29, 2003
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to hell with them..move on..try making new ones or let them go to hell........


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Picture of Greenleaf771
Registered: March 30, 2005
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Man, if they're not including you Frown, like the others said, talk to them about it. It may seem hard, and it is, but I've had to spell it out to my friends about stuff before. If that doesn't work, find someone new, someone you can talk to and who does invite you to do stuff. Some of my friends drive me insane cuz they don't invite me to do stuff, say embaraaing things about me in fromt of other people, etc., so I started hanging out with my other firends more and that's who I'm with most of the time now. So, if all else fails, find some new people to hang with. I hope it works out for you. Smile


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Registered: November 27, 2004
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these are your friends you say? You should talk to them about it, but if they continue the same maybe you should find new friends.


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Registered: March 31, 2005
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i think you should tell them straight up what you think. talk to them and tell them how you feel and how you feel left out, after that, if they still dont invite you places, they arent much of friends anyway! Big Grin


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