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Picture of deathdomepart67
Registered: July 25, 2005
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ok hey every 1 im 13 and dating a 16 year old. My mom does'nt no i'm dating him "yet". well i've been looking around the internet to see if it was illegal.. so is illegal for him to be dating me??. O and not to b mean but this isnt an opinion Question i need to no if it is really illegal. Trina
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Registered: February 10, 2008
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no it's notillagel u can't stopp pl from dateing


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Picture of DELiLAH
Registered: November 10, 2007
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im 14. dating a 18 year old and turnin 15 next month. everyone is like givin me shit. yea i get hes an adult.
Were also both bipolar and in love. SOO much. i cant lose this one. not again..... ♥


YOU CANT HURT ME ANYMORE THAN i HURT NOW
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Registered: March 05, 2008
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Elpidia69, I don't really get what you mean when you say your just "messing" around with him It sounds like your just useing him for sexs.
But anyways, When he does turn 21 it really shouldn't be a problem,

People should be allowed to date anyone they want.
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Registered: October 09, 2007
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its not illegal...if u were 13 and he was 17 then thats illegal...i always date someone whose older than me so i had to find out what i was doin b4 i got myself into anything crazy...like im 17 now nd im messing with someone whose 20 but wen he turns 21 its a problem for us...
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Registered: March 05, 2008
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It could be.
Ehh You know Maybe that could be it.
But then why would everyone eles think it's just age and not sex? o..o;
Picture of Ikki14Reed
Registered: August 17, 2001
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Alyssa-
Are you sure that the laws are against dating and not just sex?


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Picture of LEK2129
Registered: December 12, 2007
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There could be restrictions but I'm not sure. It should not matter about the age it's up to the individuals who they choose to date, it should not be up to the law.
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Registered: March 05, 2008
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Ugh, I would but on here it's blocked. I'm On the school's cumputers, Great they havn't found out about this website huh?
Only a couple of my friends know about this website.
But what I heard from Everyone and teachers also.
A person my age actully if your not 18 or older you can't date a person younger.
If you go check out my blog on my profile you'll see how much I was in love with ' Ryan' and then we couldn't be together cuz of this silly little age differnce. Oh By the way Ryan's
18 and I'm 15 Just In case I didnt say before.
:P I'm Very mature for my age lol.
Oh I'm Grounded off the net at home until Saturday.
And I'll Reply whenever I'm at school when I'm In the cumpter Class Or in Study Hall
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Registered: August 17, 2001
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My problem is the dating laws of Wisconsin.


Could you give a link maybe to the exact wording of the law?


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Picture of alyssaowns
Registered: March 05, 2008
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Dating laws.
My problem is the dating laws of Wisconsin. To me there is no problem in age differences unless you’re 13 or younger. When your 14 or older you should be wise enough to whomever you want to date To me and other people they should loosen up the law so 14 teens are aloud to pick who they want to date. It should be their decision on which to date, it’s Wrong to tell someone who they should and shouldn’t date.
The reason why I think this is so wrong is because girls and boys have abused themselves because of this law. People shouldn’t be doing things to themselves over a law. If people could really think about this, The Governor should realize how much depression he’s putting on the young teenagers by not letting them be with the ones they love.
My Solution is the government either take down this law or change it.
reason why I'm saying all this? It's becuase Belive it or not. Girls mostly Abuse themselfs or even end up killing themselfs over this :P
Shaabamm
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Registered: February 26, 2008
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well im 13 an i have been talking to this guy that is 17 an he knew thats how old i am but he said he likes me but also seems to think that me being this young is aginst the law is this even is it a law or did he make it up his self?
Picture of Wampler101
Registered: February 26, 2008
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so...does anybody have any clue what the age laws for dating is in South Dakota...I'm 15 and my bf is 19. Is there anything wrong with that?
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Registered: August 19, 2007
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im 17 and i was wondering..my mom already said she consents for me to be with someone who is 25. Is it still illegal even if i have my parents consent?

thanks


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Registered: August 17, 2001
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Putting the six year age difference aside...

If you're dating your boss, that is a really bad idea. If you two broke up, or if something happened, work would be hell for you. Also, you may be getting special attention from him at work, which may not bode well with other employees.


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Registered: August 09, 2007
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Heyy everyone.. I am 15 dating a 21 year old, and yes we get ALOT of flack from EVERYONE.. who doesn't know the situation, which is the sad part because no one wants to... any one know about a trust law.. p.s pretti bad styll but he is also my boss (was.. might be forced to quit by my father who is telling me I can never see him again)
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Registered: July 07, 2007
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Officially, it's not even illegal for you to have sex when you turn 14, that's the age a person supposedly is old enough to decide. However, until you turn 16, it's not legal to engage in any sexual activity AT ALL (no kissing, making out, oral, anything) with someone over 18, or it is considered a form of rape.


girlgrey- Living in the grey space between what is black and what is white.
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Registered: August 17, 2001
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At the age of 14 you are old or wise enough to pick who ever you want to date.



Not always. It depends on the person. Some college students aren't old or wise enough to figure out who they want to date (that's healthy). It all really just depends on the person.

P.s. Babytink, try not to double or triple post. You can quote people, and you can edit posts up to 8-10 minutes.


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Registered: March 02, 2007
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as for you weed4life you are triphalin. Why in hell would you date som eone 7 years older than you. Just to let you know he will go to jail if anyone finds out. At the age of 14 you are old or wise enough to pick who ever you want to date. Just warning you about the consequences that are ahead.
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Registered: March 02, 2007
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By law when he turns 18 and you are under 18 then he is subject to stachitory rape charges so be careful. He can go to jail for a while if anyone presses charges. Just telling you proven facts.
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