Alright. So, Last X-mas eve my uncle died. Now, its thanksgiving today, and everyone is totally weird because hes not here. How should I deal with this? How do I deal with X-mas? Should i go to my friends and talk about it? Or just leave inside me? I dont know how to handle death. Hm...Should I just avoid the topic of X-mas? Blahh! Help me Advice is needed!

My junior year of high school my baby cousin died of suffocation and my senior year, my uncle died of a blood clot. it changed my life, i became depressed. don't become that way, only allow yourself to cry for five minutes.
if the subject is brought up and you become uncomfortable get up and leave that's what i did.
If its hard to be around the relatives that discuss, point it out to them and help them cope with the loss.
it always helps to write your feelings out, or to say them out loud

3 days before christmas a friend of mine took his own life... it was really hard to get through the holidays but you gotta keep your head up and know that hes in a better place

i seriously wonder...just 15 days ago my freind lost her mother..its the saddest thing i have ever seen..both are parents were on thier back from bombay when they met with an accident..her mum died on the spot and her father is a vagetable for life..its scary what a new day could really have instore for you...a week ago my friends granma died...death is the scariest thing ever...
and what do u tell people like this? i mean they have to do justice and cry it out or else bottling up these sort of emotions and trying to move on is of no use...then again how can u tell them that everything will be allright when u know what nuthing will be the same again? its one thing i have been wracking my brains about...how do u comfort a person in so much grief if u can?

My Grandpa died not very long ago. Now my grandma is coming out for X-mas. She's had a really hard time with it. My mom is also having a hard time with it. There are things that aren't going to be the same but I'm just looking to have fun. That's what's goig to get me through. you can't just lok over it like it never happened. You should honor your uncle don't pretend like you don't care. Be happy for the life he lived. rememberit's normal to be sad.

Well I think that you should talk about it with you family...yes that, because maybe they feel the same way you do.....just a thought....

My sister died on Valentine's day about 7 years ago and I've always dealt with February 14th by not dealing with it at all. I don't do chocolates or stuff like that. But of course, Valentine's Day is a different kind of holiday from Christmas or Thanksgiving. It's always sad that she's not here to spend the holidays with, but it helps if you try to block it from your mind during the holiday and acknowledge the loss again after the holiday season is over.