I'm a very....diverse person,so my friends would be the same, and so as you could imagine their problems are all very different. I don't know why but most of them turn to me for answers to these problems.But, their is one that needs my help the most.There's one that has so much damage done to her that I'm not even sure she can really even be helped.She's a series of things:anorexic, Suicidal, a cutter...and up until now I thought I could help her but next year I'm moving and won't always be there for her like I am now.She won't open up to anyone else.I love her so much,and I'm so scarred to leave her all alone, but I have no choice.So please someone,what can you do when you've done all you can?

You need to go to an adult. a techer a counsilor or a doctor anyone who can help. This is a life and death situation. There are programs that you can get her in to help. Whatever you do it soon!! this is important!!

Goood Luck, And shorty, don't tell me that, that is annoying.
I would know.

thanks for all of your advice!2morrow ill go 2 the conselor

I know what you mean.
My best friend is in college. So now we only get to see each other every once in awhile.

Maybe you can write her, call and even once in awhile go and see her.

Sorry that is about all that I can tell you to do.

Yo, shorty, I was here way before you, so shut it.

it's not annoying so GET OVER IT! people need help, and sometimes when people get on this they only read the thing that catches their attention. THAT'S WHATS ANNOYING. people pass by the things that are more important, because the post that talks about breast inlargements seems more sexual and important. BUT ITS NOT... someone on this could be in NEED OF HELP but cannot find it. if your annoyed by a post thats from 5 min ago, or last month. or last year. then don't be gay and type

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'Why do people drag up this ancient stuff? It's annoying'

Why do people drag up this ancient stuff? It is annoying.

i know you may not like this answer, i didn;t like it either, but the only thing u can do, is tell an adult. i was in the same situation, with my best friend, i was so scared when she told me she was going to kill her self, i went right away, to the school counselor, and i told her. at first my best friend wasn't very happy about what i did, but now she loves me for it. If u really care about this person, u have to tell some one, you could save her life.

you might not want to go to an adult for help, because you feel like you would be betraying her, but you would be doing her a favor....oh, and buy her "chicken soup for the soul" if you can, those stories (real life) are inspiring and i think they can help her a bit...and please get help for her....

tell someone... thats a huge burdon for someone to place on you... they are telling you because they want help... so get them it.

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psycriatrist

Psychiatrist.

Have you told anyone about this? You should try to get her to go to a psycriatrist (SP?) they really help.