i need help im walking a picket line and feel like if i make the wrong move i lose something very dear to me. i break up the guy my firend is only dating to get back at me for i just skip what i want like any other time and dont even go for what i want. I want him but i want her friendship what do i do? im so lost and confused.im 15 and i no im young to think about love but this guy brings out the person i want to be. so do i ditch the friend or go for him?

I she did that to you she really isn't your friend she's just using you. And the guy leave him alone he's no good anyone knows it's against the rules to date a friends ex.

Bonafide?!? You're back. sorta I guess.

oh, and if your "friend" does all those things to you, then she is not your friend and you need to forget about her, because with a friend like that, who need enemies?..just a thought...

well, i think that niether of you should be with that guy, and if you can't help it, talk with your friend first, but you have to be completely sure she's okay with it, and that he likes you too!!! but i doubt your friend will be okay with it..and think about it, what would that friend do if she were in your shoes?

I say "True freinds will NEVER make you decide". But in somecases it is almost important for them to. So next time that comes around remember who will be there longer and who has always been there.

friends always come before guys im 15 also and i have faced that before. my ex told me that it was him or my friend and i ended it right there

You might want to learn how to spell 'desperate' first.

Friends always before Boys. Then again I hate Boys. But on a more serious note, Always put your friends before relationships. Your friends will always be there for you but relationships come and go. Turst me I've done that been there and Lived. OS yeah that's my opinion.

WORK IT OUTTTT!!! NOW!!!!

all 3 of you cliam frienship is more important but the only thing is that this "friend" isnt really a friend she has lied cheated and hurt me to the point where i only deal with her becuase of this special guy so i dont no what to do becuase of her!

I agree, Stick with your friend.

Chicks before dicks. That's all I'll say.

ACKKK *runs away screaming*
how many people have come here in search for an answer to that question. I am tired of answering, but oh well. Friendship is more important than a boyfriend