I just wish I could find a guy who didn't act all over serious then act like a two year old when you- out of love- know you cannot date him anymore. He cared NOTHING for me. He said the same thing to every girlfriend and he slandered my after I chose the wise path. Thousands of years and I still fall for foolishness I told him. He knew I hate knives, yet he took one to school and threatened to kill himself. I owe my life to my sister, everyone in our school does. He could have hurt or killed any one of us.
My sister has suffered and I won't let it happen to me because she has warned me that few are the people who "luck out" like y'all.. I will wait. If the One does come good, excellent i should say, if not I'll wait. but i'm not saying yes until I'm sure when it comes to steady realtionships.

quote:

---

What is love that mekes the wise a fool?
What is it that makes the old young?
...
Love is my death, my life my light...

---

From the song " Love is Teliano" written by Castonmiahagh in one of my books. She threw herself into the Sea and swam back to shore because she realized she couldn't leave Teliano, the guy she fell in love with. Wish I could find my Teliano *pout*

*coughs* Wrong. My Parents started dating when they were FRESHMAN in Highschool and got married and stayed married till my Mother died.

It's different for everybody.

"What's a real test of love?"

My boyfriends in Iraq, I maybe talk to him 1 a month, even if he got his face blown off I'll still love him. I don't care about (physical appearance) he's 6'5, tall and skinny, I still love him.

Not everyone finds the 'one'. Some do, but not all at the same time. You gotta wait.
-Sunset

Your advise is wise but not 100% true for everyone. I am a senior in H.S. and I have found the One. We've been dating for 2 years and one year ago he asked me to marry him and I said yes. Some people do get lucky. Don't lose all hope in young men.

I'm glad you were one of the lucky ones.

What's a real test of love?

If she is on the other side of the world, you only get to talk to her maybe once a week, she has no breasts and is shorter than you, and you still love her.

Which I do... sigh...

Don't I sound like a 10-year-old...Hopefully you got what I meant.

Ahh...Yeah, I'm not ever serious about guys...I'm 13 God dammit, not like I'm looking for "THE one". By the looks of this, getting married is VERY far from my goals for the future. I'm really not too much of the emotional type (gasp), so even if I'm really, really into a guy, I don't let myself think too much into it. I haven't gotten hurt yet. I know there's a first time for everything, and I'm only 13, but you'd be suprised...

I do believe it's quite nice of you to warn everybody, and I'm sure some people might pay attention, but, (not speaking for everyone) people, especially teens, need to find out on their own. I mean, when you were 13, didn't anyone tell you what NOT to do, but you did it anyway because you needed to know?

I have also decided to not date yet, but it seems for different reasons for you. I am not going to date for a whole year.