I do not team up. If I agree w/ someone, I say so. If I don't, then I don't say so. DWM and I are friends, and have been for awhile. I will not be used as backup in anyone's debates. Therefore, no one should expect me to agree with them based solely on who they are...it's what they're saying that matters. Love, Jen.

while you werent looking, jen i squeezed all the juice out of the fish and dipped your lollipop in it. hope it doesnt taste bad...

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ummmmm....just to let you know, me and Jen r friends now so you can't team up w/ her like last time to fight against me.

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i dont care that youre friends, im not that cheap.

yeah, haha, very funny DWM.


ummmmm....just to let you know, me and Jen r friends now so you can't team up w/ her like last time to fight against me.
And, for the record, next time I say something about you in this board, you started it.

*takes fish without thinking* Ummm...*stares* EWWWW! *screams and runs away* Mommy, I'm scared!

Right. I was actually cutting up and vaccuum sealing dead fish today...what a coincidence. At least snapper season is over so there won't be so much dead fish and so many fish frys (fries?) at Wayne's. Bah. Oh, well, I'll be your friend anyway...just don't get your fish on my lollipop! Love, Jen.

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God DWM, I din't mean to **** you off!

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well, FINE [jk]

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Jeez, I'm just saying that maybe you need to lighten up just a little bit.

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not possible, not at all

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(and you say IM the one who needs anger management)

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did i say that? dont remember. and did i say that I didnt need it? nope. i have had it, but you know, theres a couple recent holes in the wall, courtesy of yours truly.

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I'm firing my therapist!

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literally? hehe, sounds fun.

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*holds out lollipop* I'll be your friend!

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*holds out dead fish* ill be your friend!

I agree, everything is good now *takes lollipop from jen, takes a lick...*

And yes, I have seen now that cutting is a very sensitive issue....

*holds out lollipop* I'll be your friend!

In all seriousness, everything's good as far as I'm concerned...you just have to understand, by nature cutting is a very touchy subject. Lots of emotional stuff tied up with it. That's probably why we all jumped on you so quickly...In the beginning, I said a lot of stuff on the boards I wish I wouldn't have, but everything's fine now. Love, Jen.

I think we got off on the wrong foot at least on this post i did. I didnt mean just go and tell someone like a counselor i ment that as mabye a sugestion to tell the girl if she wants help or answers to it mabye idk Can we all be friends

Punishing yourself...not weird at all...same reason I did it. Love, Jen.

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YouthVoice...wow, you used to cut? You seem so happy...*slaps face* Right, Jen, lets make ridiculous generalizations about people.

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Yes, I did.
So you burned yourself? wow, I don't think I ever do that, usually I would cut parts of my arms, legs and stuff like that. I would wonder if I would ever cut my wrists deep enough. You know, in a way, I think I also did it because I wanted to punish myself...someway...felt guilty...weird huh?

http://www.yatan-ayur.com.au/lotus_meditation_small.jpg

Click there to see someone in the lotus position...it's easier to show than tell. Love, Jen.

nope.....no idea...

The lotus position is that way that you cross you legs w/ both of them on top...that didn't make sense. Do you have any idea what I'm talking about?

what the crap is a lotus position.
anyway, funny post, I think it is lightening up the mood here, (hopefully)

All shall be calm...calm...lalalala...*assumes lotus position and begins chanting personal mantra* The blue energy is sinking, sinking into your skin...ssssinking. *opens eyes and dislocates leg trying to get out of the lotus position* That's it! I'm firing my therapist! He sucks and this doesn't work! Love, Jen.

Hey, whoa, ok, what happened here.
God DWM, I din't mean to **** you off!
Jeez, I'm just saying that maybe you need to lighten up just a little bit.
Your right, I don't know what you do or what is going on with you. But heres a question to ask yourself.... did I ever try to?
I mean come on, did you read a post that I said, "oh, yeah, I know ALL about DWM, she's such a gay freak, I hate her guts. But I can say this cuz I know ALL about her" NO!! I DID NOT SAY THAT. YOU ARE TWISTING MY WORDS. And maybe I was out of line to say that cutting is just a way to handle their insecurity, OK I WAS OUT OF LINE. man, u get mad too easily, (and you say IM the one who needs anger management)


NATTYNAPS, *starts chuckling* I don't hate your name I just find it somehow amusing...lol

It's not that we don't like your name...it just strikes me as very funny for some reason...but that's not the point. Some people, even if they aren't doing it for attention, really do need someone to be there for them. But I'm thinking that just listening or giving her a hug would be more helpful than running off to tattle on her or preaching about how bad cutting is...it all depends on the person. It is nice of you to care. Love, Jen.

I dont quite get whats really that funny about my name except that all of you dont like it. I guess thats because i'm so dense.

if it were me that this whole debate was about, i would want to be left alone. my problems are people. people hate me, and i hate them. i would love to be alone. this is probably what she wants, unless she is one of the people who does it for attention, but you cant really tell that easily.

obviously i didnt choose the right words by saying that they do it for attention. For this i am sorry. I have never cut myself so no i dont know what is going through her head, but i do think its not right to just leave her to deal with it alone